There are 11 reasons for women's frigidity, and relief methods can be tried with traditional Chinese medicine tips

The manifestation of female frigidity: Women lack sexual desire, have no requirements for sexual life, show indifference, dislike or disgust towards sexual intercourse, and feel anxiety, discomfort or pain during sexual intercourse; Some people do not actively avoid sexual intercourse, but they cannot make appropriate sexual responses during sexual intercourse, lack pleasure, or the pleasure is not obvious or satisfactory. Some women may not even know what sexual pleasure is and have never experienced the sensation of orgasm.

What causes frigidity in women

1. Drug effects

Long term use of certain drugs can also have effects, such as changes in sexual desire, changes in sexual pleasure intensity, and changes in physiological responses of the genitalia. It is generally believed that these drugs can include psychotherapy drugs, such as drugs for Parkinson's disease, cardiovascular drugs, etc.

Given the potential side effects that drugs may bring to women, doctors should strictly control the dosage based on the condition of the patient, and find the lowest effective dosage to avoid or reduce the side effects as much as possible.

2. Busy life

Multiple roles at home and outside, as well as modern life pressures, can lead to changes in female hormone levels, disrupt the sexual response cycle, and affect sexual desire. Los Angeles sexologist Dr. Linda DeViller suggests that arranging your life reasonably, taking a hot bath, and more can help relieve stress, relax your body and mind, and improve sexual life for couples.

3. Shape deviation

Becoming overweight or pregnant can lead to a change in body shape, which can cause psychological pressure on women and subsequently affect sexual pleasure. Dr. Deviler suggests that actively exercising to lose weight can help increase one's sexual recognition and increase libido.

4. Living conditions factors

Due to poor living conditions, women are unhappy and inattentive, making it difficult to stimulate sexual excitement, thereby interfering with sexual life and leading to frigidity.

5. Lack of sexual knowledge

Lack of sexual knowledge among female friends can also lead to sexual apathy. Lack of sexual knowledge, fear of sexual intercourse, fear of pain, or lack of understanding of sexual psychological differences between men and women. On the night of the wedding, the man's movements are rough and impatient, and he quickly reaches orgasm and ejaculates, but the woman does not experience pleasure. On the contrary, he may feel discomfort or pain, and even produce vaginal spasms. Over time, it will become increasingly indifferent to sexual life.

6. Sexual function factors

The main reason is that the impact of personal emotions intensifies, such as tension, unease, anxiety, depression, lack of trust, shame, guilt, disgust, sadness, fear, hostility, and other emotions, which can reduce the blood flow to the female genitalia, leading to a lack of sexual response in women, which leads to low sexual desire and even frigidity.

7. Unharmonious marital relationship

The relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, with mutual distrust, suspicion, or aversion, and the inability to generate sexual excitement. Actively improve marital relationships, eliminate psychological barriers and various negative emotions between spouses, coordinate sexual life rhythm, cooperate with each other, and understand each other. The man should not be impatient or rough, but should help the woman gradually reach orgasm.

8. Excessive masturbation

Proper masturbation can contribute to physical and mental health, but excessive masturbation can bring great harm to the human body. Dr. Deviler stated that the correct use of sex can help improve sexual sensitivity, but excessive use can reduce sensitivity to sexual stimuli, leading to a lack of sexual intensity in couples, and ultimately leading to loss of sexual interest. Experts suggest that the use of sex tools should be limited.

9. Disease Impact

As we all know, the physiological response of female sexual arousal mainly depends on the integrity of the vascular and nervous systems, so any disease that affects these two systems, such as diabetes, heart disease, skin disease, especially venereal disease, will cause low sexual desire and difficulty in sexual arousal; Such as changes in sex hormone levels and the impact of some diseases.

10. Too fond of cleanliness

Some women are too fond of cleanliness and unwilling to let the other party touch their private parts, which can affect their pleasure. At the same time, excessive cleaning of women's private areas can also damage the vaginal environment, potentially leading to gynecological diseases and exacerbating their aversion to sexual activity.

11. Improper education

Due to factors such as improper childhood education, psychological trauma caused by sexual harassment, religious influence, or adult role models, prejudices towards sexual life are formed, such as believing that sexual intercourse is dirty, lewd, and unclean behavior, a sin, and that "men are happy, women suffer", resulting in feelings of disgust, disgust, and fear towards sexual life.

Treatment of female frigidity

Patients with sexual apathy should eliminate stress, focus on improving their own and others' enjoyment, and find and eliminate the reasons for low libido. Men not only need to get rid of their negative emotions, but also help their partners overcome this psychological barrier together. Make your partner aware of the nature and possible causes of the problem, help her avoid putting pressure on herself, and promote communication between both parties.

1. Traditional Chinese Medicine Therapy

Adjusting yin and yang; Tonifying kidney qi; Activate the gonadal axis.

2. Psychotherapy

Psychotherapy, some women, especially those who have been subjected to sexual assault, should carry out sexual psychotherapy. However, due to the limited number of psychological counseling and treatment institutions in China, and the fact that most people have not formed the habit of seeking help from psychologists, they often need to make psychological adjustments themselves. Of course, it would be best to find a professional they are willing to trust to listen to their confidences and comfort their injured hearts.

3. Massage therapy.

4. Meridian assisted therapy.

5. Exercise assisted therapy.