Post Date December, 02 2023
1、 Possess confidence and demeanor
After a man reaches his thirties, he must start learning to manage himself with heart, which is reflected in his own thoughts and cultivation. Confidence is the most important quality of a man. A confident man can always infect others, whether they are friends or enemies. To make others have confidence in you, you must first have confidence in yourself. A confident man can overcome all difficulties. A man with grace is like a sea, refusing every drop and accommodating every river. Having a good demeanor makes men more favored. Only by not competing for the present can they have a broad view of the world, and giving to others can bring endless benefits. As the saying goes, "A prime minister can hold a boat in his belly." A man with a heart like the sea doesn't know how many boats he can hold in his belly! Manner tends to make men look dashing and unrestrained.
2、 Make friends with thoughtful people
After a man reaches his thirties, he will begin to purposefully choose friends. Networking in society is very important, and your circle of friends will have a significant impact on your life. Men should make friends, make good friends, and avoid bad friends. The so-called close friends are those who are helpful to you, and these people are often excellent themselves. Making more close friends is very beneficial for a person's life and work. But true friends are not easy to make, because such friends require a great deal of sincerity from your heart.
A thoughtful friend knows well if you consider him a friend. If you are only using him, he will not treat you as a friend in his heart. Making friends sometimes has no purpose, you just feel that this person is very thoughtful and worth interacting with. But often it is these thoughtful friends who extend their hand to you when you are in the most difficult situation. Friends are one of the most important elements in a man's life. If a man wants to live like a real man, he must make many friends and make more beneficial ones.
3、 Learn patience and tolerance
After a man reaches his thirties, he must learn to endure and tolerate. In society, there are often many things that you cannot accept, but when you have to accept these things, it requires your patience. Enduring others is actually tolerating them, and a man who can tolerate others will appear generous. A successful man is often a man who can endure humiliation. Men who can endure loneliness are never willing to be lonely, and men's patience is for better bursts. To those who say we are fools, say 'I am fools' and make them feel at a loss! For those who accuse us without reason, do not argue with them, as this will only make you angry. Rather than hurting others, it's better to forgive them. Tolerance is the best panacea for treating others' wounds.
4、 Maintain a good mindset and value your body
After reaching their thirties, men should learn to regulate their mentality and value their bodies. The body is the capital of revolution, while the mentality is a money detector. If a man wants to obtain more wealth, he must have a strong physique. If a man wants to become the richest man in the long run, he must have a positive and optimistic attitude. Pay attention to diet, exercise regularly, and have enough sleep to ensure a healthy body. Don't worry about gains and losses, work hard and let mentality determine everything.
You don't have to go for morning runs every day, but it won't take up much of your time. All you need is persistence and perseverance. But you must regularly exercise your body. Taking a walk is a good choice, as it will give you full strength. You don't have to take a shower in cold water in winter, but it's not a big deal because I've also persisted for a whole winter. But you must often wash your face with cold water in winter. This not only prevents colds, but also maintains a clear mind. You can fail, but you always have to maintain a winning mentality. If you defeat yourself, you will have no enemies.
5、 Always maintain your smile and make politeness your business card
After a man reaches his thirties, he should always maintain his smile. Smiling and welcoming others indicates that you are a kind person, and everyone is willing to interact with kind people. Don't write down your sadness on your face, it will only keep others away from you. What kind of person are you? Others judge by whether you greet them with a smile. And this kind of judgment plays a very important role in your impression in others' hearts.
People often say 'details determine success or failure', and these details often reflect whether you are a polite person. Polite people know how to care for others. Others will also give you opportunities to succeed due to your politeness and concern. A man's business card is a smile and courtesy, it is a passport for a man to achieve his career.
6、 Love and career
After a man reaches his thirties, people often say that if he chooses love, he will lose his career, and if he chooses a career, he will not receive love. In fact, the sweeter the love, the more successful a man's career is. But you must have the ability to handle it. In fact, love and career are two different things. It is best to devote all your energy to business management while young, to achieve basic success in your career, and then choose love at this level. A man with love nourishment is definitely more mature, charming, and determined to pursue a career than a man who does not know what love is like.
Men in their thirties, don't believe what extreme people say. As people often say, 'Marriage is the tomb of love', this statement is too extreme. The difference between marriage and love is only a slight increase in "fuel, rice, oil, and salt". It can be said that marriage is a complete love, and previous love was only in a stage of love. Only through marriage can men and women fully understand what love is. Marriage is mutual understanding, encouragement, and support. Help each other in life and career, so that family and career can have a double harvest.
7、 We must strive to do better than women
After reaching their thirties, men must strive to do better than women in anything. Even in things that cannot be done better than women, strive to do as well as women. This is not to say that men should be born stronger than women, but to say that men should be born to do better than women. Because as long as women work hard, it is easy to surpass men, so men should know that it is natural for them to work harder and do better than women. In today's society, women's status is getting higher and higher, and for the first time, women have the right to choose men. So if you, as a man, cannot do better than a woman, then why do women choose you? Women often say that 'women can hold up half the sky', and now women do better than men in certain fields that belong to men. So men not only need to excel in their own fields, but also need to be able to do equally well in the fields that belong to women.
8、 Strive to help my wife realize her dreams
After a man reaches his thirties, if you are already married, please make sure to work hard to help his wife realize her dreams. People often say, 'Men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men.' Therefore, if a woman has already conquered you, you must strive to help her conquer the world. A woman's dream never disappears because she lives with a man, but becomes even stronger as a result. Women's strong desires and dreams may not manifest in front of you, but your heart must understand.
Wife is the core of a man's life, and whether a wife lives happily or not is something that a man must care about. Don't think your wife is here to serve you when she marries home. Every man's wife will care about his husband, and every man should also learn to care about his wife. And the most important thing to care about your wife is what her dreams are and how to help her achieve them.
9、 Learn to be brave and take on the responsibilities on your shoulders
After reaching their thirties, men should learn to be brave and shoulder their unshakable responsibilities. Filial piety to parents is a man's responsibility, loving his wife and children is a man's responsibility, and achieving career success is also a man's responsibility. Men's responsibilities are no more than family and career. These responsibilities are indeed quite heavy, but as a man, you must shoulder them. There's no reason, just because you're a man.
Men have the right to cry, but they have no right to cry out loud. Men have the right to cry, but they have no right to cry in front of their parents, wives, and children. And career responsibilities. As a man, you have no choice but to take responsibility and use your shoulders to do so.
10、 Never give up on yourself, believe that you can do it
After a man reaches his thirties, he must never give up on himself. The reason why others give up on you is because you have already given up on yourself.
There must be a way to succeed, there must be a reason for failure, and there is only one reason for failure, which is four words: insufficient learning!
