The two young women verbally stated that such sexual experiences are the most unpleasant

1. Wrong caress and care

Lan, 26, programmer

My husband and I had no sexual experience before we got married, and our common wish was to save this most captivating moment until our wedding night. My close friend told me that if I could take the initiative, his emotions would also be infected by me, which would lead to more happiness and less pain on the first night. So on the day of my wedding, I took the initiative to him as stated in the book and caressed his private parts with my fingers and lips. However, to my surprise, when I followed the instructions, he ejaculated early before entering.

Comment: Sex is a process that needs to be honed, and in general, premature ejaculation in men may originate from their first sexual intercourse. A man without sexual experience doesn't know what will happen, he's just excited about the pleasure he wants to feel. So, in the first sexual encounter, it is crucial for both parties to communicate more, and it is extremely important to have a balance of strength as soon as possible. Do not blindly tease him, but rather put yourself in the position of the person involved and experience it together.

2. Wrong attire and underwear

Xie Yiyi, 25 years old, freelance

My guy, with style and style, is a standard handsome guy. On our honeymoon, we went to the Maldives and upon arriving at the hotel, we looked forward to a perfect sexual encounter together. After he took off his coat, I saw him wearing a clean and tight gray CK underwear, which was extremely sexy.

And myself, on the other hand, is an old underwear that has been washed yellow, and the underwear is a super earthy style with floral dots bought from ordinary supermarkets. Feeling ashamed of myself, my original excitement suddenly plummeted to the bottom. Although he had been working hard and always told me it was okay, I still felt very inferior and the love was boring.

Comment: A woman's appearance is important, but the choice of underwear between lovers is more important. Men's sexual desire is often proportional to the sophistication of women's underwear, and sexy underwear can also increase women's confidence and charm. So, it's important to keep the habit of wearing exquisite underwear in your daily routine, so that you can calmly welcome him for sex no matter what occasion.