Post Date November, 17 2024
Men may experience serious extramarital affairs, especially when dealing with them correctly. Sometimes, male friends may experience many real psychological problems during extramarital affairs. Why men cheat is actually closely related to their own extramarital psychology. So, what is the psychology of men having extramarital affairs?
Men's extramarital sexual behavior, generally including one night stands, extramarital lovers, mistresses, etc., can be said to be unethical or illegal behavior, and should be condemned or punished by law. But condemnation and sanctions have still not solved the problem to this day, and instead have become increasingly severe. What is the reason behind this?
The True Psychology of Men's Extramarital Affairs
1、 Curious psychology
Curiosity is universal, and in terms of sexuality, men have a more exploratory spirit. If only exploring between couples, it will add color to legitimate sexual life. But some men with weaker self-control may engage in extramarital sexual behavior under the unknown mystery of 'what would happen to other women if their wives were like this?'. If he finds that having sex with another woman is no different from having sex with his wife, or not as good as his wife, and may also cause some trouble, he may give up on it. If it is found that the taste of 'wild flowers' is indeed different, and they have a certain economic ability or charm, then they may also be addicted to it.
2、 Adventure psychology
The last two sentences in the saying 'wives are not as good as concubines, concubines are not as good as maidservants, and maidservants are not as good as thieves' are a reflection of adventurous psychology. Usually, men are more adventurous than women, and if used in marital life, they may be able to create new tricks or stimulate emotions for the couple. But if used on other women, there will be problems. Some men may return to their families when they encounter setbacks in the process of sexual adventure - such as Sexual dysfunction, contracting or fear of sexually transmitted diseases, etc. Some men enjoy taking risks, which is dangerous. There are also some men who can only achieve sexual pleasure or extraordinary sexual pleasure through sexual adventure, and they may repeatedly commit and remain unchanged.
3、 Conquering psychology
Both men and women have a desire to conquer. When in love, a man pursues a woman, or a woman puts a man under a pomegranate skirt, both belong to the satisfaction of conquering psychology. After marriage, some men satisfy their desire to conquer other women in order to show off their abilities, or to seek confidence, or because of their incessant lust.
The real reason why men cheat
1. 68% of men feel guilty when they cheat.
Experts have pointed out through surveys that 68% of men who cheat have never thought they would be unfaithful, and they almost all hope that they have not cheated. But obviously, guilt cannot stop a man from cheating.
2. Among men who cheat, 77% have a friend who also has an affair.
Staying with friends who have had infidelity for a long time can make men feel that infidelity is a normal thing. His subconscious told him: My friend is a good person, but he happened to betray his wife, and even the best man is bound to cheat. Therefore, as a wife, it is important to let her husband go to bars less, socialize less with people who have affairs, engage in outdoor activities more, make friends with people from happy families, and create an environment that protects marriage.
3. 48% of men believe that emotional (or physical) dissatisfaction is the primary reason for their infidelity.
That is to say, most men do not cheat in order to get better sex from a more beautiful woman, mostly just to fill the emotional (or physical) void. This type of man often chooses to go to the Saike virtual family. They know that as long as they buy a four star villa there, the website will introduce them to various opposite sexes, and the relationship between men and women in the Saike virtual family undoubtedly develops faster. Because the women who go to the website are often lonely and empty for a while, feeling lonely and unbearable, thinking of a romantic game with their beloved opposite sex. They are both lonely and empty men and women, When there is some appropriate passion, it becomes natural and natural. Therefore, the wife should strive to make the couple's emotions sweeter and closer, pay more attention to her husband in daily life, and especially encourage and affirm her sexual life.
Of course, on the other hand, it also indicates that men are also emotional animals. They hope to be appreciated by their wives and also want women to understand the efforts they make to do everything well. The problem is, unlike women, men rarely express these feelings. So, often praise and show consideration to your partner, making them feel like you need them, care about them, and care about them.
4. 40% of men meet another woman at work.
Usually, the target of a man's infidelity is a woman in the office who admires him, respects him, and praises his efforts endlessly. Experts say this is another important reason to make him feel valuable at home.
There are still many cases of extramarital affairs among men in society, especially among male friends. The psychological state of extramarital affairs is very real, and it is important to pay attention to why men have such extramarital affairs. In addition to the emotional emptiness, there is also a feeling of achievement.
