Post Date December, 02 2023
After investigating the psychological causes of some marital discord, a social psychologist found that the husband's dissatisfaction with his wife and the wife's dissatisfaction with her husband were mainly in the following aspects.
Husband's dissatisfaction:
1、 The wife's incessant chatter. No matter big or small, no matter where and when, always keep talking.
2、 Lack of shared life interests. Having no shared interests, unable to enjoy the joy of life together, and even conflicting with each other.
3、 Selfishness and lack of understanding are the things that a husband cannot tolerate the most.
4、 Complaining and interfering with one's hobbies. Almost every man has his own hobbies, which is an essential psychological balance factor in men's lives. They absolutely do not allow others to interfere with their hobbies.
5、 Improper clothing means losing the husband's dignity and causing him to lose face.
6、 A quick temper. Any man hopes that his wife is gentle and lovely, and his irritability is an important factor that leads to the breakdown of a marriage relationship.
7、 Interfere with his discipline of women. Many families belong to the "strict father and kind mother" type, but if one is too strict and the other is too kind, conflicts will naturally arise.
8、 Boasting and showing off one's abilities. This problem is common among men, and once they discover that their wives also possess this quality, they will be very annoyed.
9、 Emotionally fragile. Mature women have stable relationships, and men generally hope that their wives are more mature. A fragile "little girl" style wife makes it difficult for the husband to accept it for a long time.
10、 Narrow minded and jealous.
11、 Ignoring household chores. Regardless of the reason, neglecting household chores is detrimental.
12、 Argumentative, picky, and at a loss. To use forceful words to reason and to gloss over falsehood.
Wife's dissatisfaction:
1、 The husband's selfishness and lack of understanding. Women also need the warmth of men, and selfishness is the number one enemy of love.
2、 No outstanding achievements in career. Women always hope that their husbands can stand out, at least make a difference.
3、 I enjoy complaining and don't understand her interests. If a husband doesn't share the same interests as his wife, it's best not to complain too much.
4、 Unwilling to openly and honestly negotiate matters.
5、 Lack of interest in children and weak family values.
6、 Being too strict with children and using them as a vent when things go wrong.
7、 Regardless of the family, they prioritize their friends over everything, and the family serves themselves and their group.
8、 Rude, not quiet, without manners.
9、 Lack of ambition, muddle along, lack of male desire for success, mediocre and rigid.
10、 Short tempered and impatient. Being above the family, unable to treat others equally, and prone to anger is unbearable.
11、 Likes to criticize others, lacks the generosity and magnanimity of men, has a broken and nagging mouth, and likes to nitpick in small matters.
