After three, five, or ten or eight years of wasted free marriage, most of the happy and happy marriages at the beginning felt "psychological fatigue" or "aesthetic fatigue".
Men face their wives who are careless in dressing up and lack visual appreciation value at home, and their "fatigue" mentality will naturally become excited when they face fresh women who are well-dressed, well-packaged and full of sensory stimulation outside.
In addition to the magnetic attraction of physical space and the chemical reaction in the brain, it is natural for a man or woman to fall in love without paying attention. But the problem is that the identities or expectations of men and women in love networks are often not equal: men enjoy wives and children, and stealing a woman is just a change of appetite;
Most women, however, chew their loneliness alone and decide to give their lives only when they want to have a home. But dedication can't bring home, which is the fate of most "third parties".
Let's see how men complete the "three steps" of extramarital affairs.
Step 1: "Tell the history of revolutionaries in pain".
A man stared at a new woman who could relieve "psychological fatigue", and the feeling of hunger and thirst arose spontaneously. He looked for an opportunity to get close to the "prey" and find a quarrel to tell his grief: the yellow woman at home was too annoying, and there was no interest in bed; The three rooms and two halls have become the world of wives and children. I am just a redundant tenant
The girl who was in love or feeling hungry blinked her eyes and listened carefully to the story made up by the man. Her heart was filled with love and sympathy. Once a woman's compassion is touched, it is inevitable to put on a farce of "beauty saves heroes".
Therefore, the woman acted as the emotional savior of the man "righteously", touching the "poor" soul tenderly; She doesn't care about face and public opinion, even if she goes through fire and water.