First step: Frequently gently touch. A simple touch can create a warm and comfortable feeling, and the magical effect of gently stroking the other person's back is particularly true for women.
Step 2: Share a secret. Write down what you are thinking on paper, and then use a few minutes to convey your thoughts to the other person through non verbal means, allowing them to guess.
The third formula: wholeheartedly. People who are half hearted often become suspicious of their partner's behavior and lack trust. Over time, this can cause fatal damage to the relationship between the two parties.
Fourth Style: Imitate the other person. People are more likely to become lovers with people who are similar to them - whether in terms of intelligence, background, or personal charm - and sometimes simply imitating each other can enhance their relationship. Practice method: Two people stand or sit close, freely moving their hands and feet, but at the same time imitating each other's movements, to ensure that both feel free and consistent.
Fifth Style: Prepare some jokes. In long-lasting and happy romantic relationships, couples always make each other laugh heartily. Other studies have shown that women are more likely to fall in love with male partners who can make them laugh.
Sixth Style: Do things together that you haven't done before. Human memory is classified and stored. If you are the first person to think of in each type of memory of the other person, then you truly achieve the goal of "having you in me, having me in you".
Step 7: Relax the psychological defense line. Relaxing vigilance is beneficial for emotional development, but using alcohol to numb nerves is not a good way. You can gently embrace each other and try to feel each other's breath, gradually synchronizing your own breath with it. After a few minutes, the two will feel integrated.
Eighth Style: Moderately accommodate the other party. Making some good changes specifically for the other party, such as quitting smoking or drinking, can skyrocket your status.
Step 9: Small danger stimulates the feeling of "heartbeat". The physical and mental reactions of people engaged in certain intense or adventurous activities are extremely similar to the feeling of being "electrocuted" during love. In addition to playing roller coasters, watching thrillers, and other methods, Epstein also teaches everyone a small game: two people alternately lean back, with the other person catching them behind them.
Tenth formula: A little closer. Close to water towers help people develop a good impression among themselves. If two people consciously approach each other and intentionally allow each other to enter their personal space, they will soon become intimate. Practice method: Two people stand at a distance of about 1 meter, and then bring the distance closer every 10 seconds until they are about to meet.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)