In fact, sometimes men's lies are white lies. They mainly lie to avoid conflicts with women, but some lies are not true white lies. However, no matter what kind of lies they are, it indicates that men want to live with you like this all the time. These are the most common lies men tell:
1. I have no further contact with my ex girlfriend
Many men maintain a certain level of connection after breaking up with their ex girlfriend, making her a major concern for current women and considered a rival in love. Whenever a boyfriend shows some ambiguous signs, many women become neurotic and keep asking him "who he is" and "is he an ex girlfriend.
But humans are emotional animals, and it is absolutely impossible to shut down the emotions of their predecessors. Presumably, women will not erase their ex boyfriends from their minds. In order to avoid being exposed to emotional scars and not letting her know too much about his true attitude towards his ex girlfriend, men use such lies to cover up their inner feelings.
2. I didn't hear your call just now
Don't expect every man to answer the phone on time when you want him to. He also needs freedom and space. Perhaps it's because he's really busy, or he deliberately doesn't answer, or he's sulking, but afterwards, he doesn't want you to doubt him and make you sad and angry. So, men can only conceal it with such clich é d and cute lies.
3. I need to work overtime
In today's society, men are under great pressure, so overtime is inevitable. Because of this, 'overtime' has been used as the best excuse by many men who engage in extramarital affairs. Many times, he even colludes with friends or colleagues to deceive you, making you believe his lies even more.
So, when men often have to work overtime, you need to wake up. We cannot believe it as true, nor can we completely deny it. It is best to use visiting as an excuse to go and explore the truth. In addition to exploring the truth and emptiness, it is also good to offer comfort to the husband and promote marital relationships.
4. I like your cooking
The self satisfaction that a woman can obtain from supporting her family is one of the great feelings she can have. If a man tells her 'I like the food you cook', a woman will feel satisfied and warm. And when he tells you the opposite, there are only the following results: A. You cover the pot on his head; B. You're crying. I am very confident that there will be no third outcome.
5. I will always love you alone
This is the most absurd lie. Almost all women are smart enough to understand, this is just nonsense. It is completely impossible for a person to love only one person in their lifetime. Even if you can guarantee that you only love her now, how can you guarantee that there will be accidents or changes in the unknown future? No matter who has the problem of cheating, can one still confidently say that they only love the person they once loved in their lifetime?
If a man says such things to you, it only proves that he has a strong purpose and hopes to gain your favor and then possess you through these words. So when hearing men say such things, female friends must pay attention.
6. This issue will be discussed later
Simply put, when a man says he wants to discuss the issue later, it means he doesn't want to talk about it at all. But women always cannot read through men's hearts, and in order to clarify things, they even keep asking questions. It is often easy to arouse men's aversion and their attitudes become even worse. When a man says this to you, take it easy.