Men have always been careless, but when faced with delicate women in love, some unintentional expressions can make women hold grudges in their hearts. Based on the survey and the valuable experience contributed by Chinese and foreign netizens' comments, the following ten taboos for romantic relationships have been compiled. Knowing how to avoid mistakes is sometimes more important than knowing how to fall in love. Some cannot be said, while others have to say their wrongdoing earlier: it is not impolite to invite a couple to meet at the last moment, and immediately schedule another meeting at 9 pm.
The feeling of suddenly wanting to see each other is actually quite touching. But if his words were like this: "Hey! My friend and I had an appointment to go for dinner, but it was canceled temporarily, are you free now?" Such people would certainly be annoying. Evil deed two: mentioning my ex girlfriend
This may be the most common mistake that lovers make. Saying good things about his ex girlfriend in front of a woman indicates that he has not fully accepted the fact of breaking up yet. Blaming his ex girlfriend in front of a woman suggests that if a woman breaks up with him in the future, the woman's evaluation of him will not be much better. The best way is to never mention the experiences of a relationship. Evil deed three: Can't wait to rush to the bathroom
Leaping from a woman's bed and rushing towards the bathroom is certainly not a bad thing, unless he makes such a move within 4 seconds of the women completing the task. What does this mean? Does he want to say, 'I feel so dirty, I need to wash myself up quickly?' The above plot appears in the TV series' Sex and the City 'and sounds funny, but in real life, it's hard for women to laugh when encountering people with this bathing habit.
The level of intimacy varies over time
Evil behavior four: taking out a condom too early or too late
The following is an unpleasant experience left by a netizen. She had her first date with a super kawaii guy, and they met at PUB at 11pm. At 1am, both of them felt pretty good, and she was already mentally prepared to kiss the guy's mouth. But then the guy said, "Let's go! I'll take everything I need with me." She asked, "What's the woman talking about?" The guy replied, "It's just a condom!" What do these guys think of girls? However, there is at least one redeeming feature of this serious mistake, which is to let girls know early on that women are a rascal, so they don't have to waste more time with women.
In addition, there is also a situation that is even worse than before. A woman has been dating a guy for a period of time, and tonight the weather and location are favorable, which is bound to develop a more intimate relationship. Everything went smoothly, the women took off their clothes and lay down comfortably, hugging each other happily until... in the darkness, the woman suddenly heard his voice: "Did you think of the one I thought of? Because I forgot
The woman has already invited him home, do you still need to prepare ultra-thin sensitive condoms in the drawer of the bedside table? Women are not professionals in the sex industry. At this time, it's best for a woman to stand up and get dressed, and ask her to go home on her own. Unable to retrieve a condom at a critical moment is simply a lack of survival ability!
Evil Action 5: There is only one safety helmet on the locomotive
This is a personal experience of a colleague and friend. She dated a popular variety show host, and he proposed to take her home. Unexpectedly, his car was not a car, but a motorcycle, and there was only a helmet on the car, and it was still raining that night... All these things were tolerable. Anyway, girls would like to take his car.
But who is wearing the safety helmet for? Of course it's a man, and his reason is: 'I don't want to be photographed by the paparazzi.'. So the girl called a taxi herself and went home. Later, when the boy called her again, she didn't even want to answer! The level of intimacy varies over time
A woman's heart is really elusive
Evil behavior six: showing excessive openness
Here is Susan's story. Susan met a middle-aged man named George during her summer vacation, who was as handsome as George Clooney and not as lascivious as him. Their love at first sight was simply too beautiful to be realistic; Under the tree in the park, the romantic conversation lasted for two hours, and their eyes never left each other until the sun tilted westward. He said he is an architect, has no children, and recently divorced
How could there be such a good thing in the world? Susan's intuition was that there must be some deception in it. As expected, at the moment they met, George said, "Come over to my house tonight. Women may as well bring a good friend over. I am very passionate about playing 3P
Evil Action Seven: Not Calling or Calling
The situation is like this. The two of them have been dating for a while, and one of them wants to break up, so they unilaterally decide to completely cut off the news. Calling his home is always answered by a tape recorder, and his phone number has changed. He takes a detour to avoid any place where a woman may go. How does a woman feel when she meets someone like this? It's heartbreaking to find out that a woman once loved a bastard, but what's even worse is that this bastard is still a coward!
If you don't call, it's an unforgivable evil. In some cases, it's even worse to call. There is a kind of dogged calling. Every time you pass a woman's house, you call her to greet her. Otherwise, it's just a voicemail filled with women. No matter whether she is in the office, on the road, in the restaurant, or even in the bathroom, he can catch up with her... Is this kind of person annoying enough? Even worse than this is if he is a boyfriend who has already broken up with a woman.
After breaking up, he would call a woman and tell her, "I'm heartbroken, but I can understand and respect a woman's decision." Hearing such elegant words, women began to wonder if women had let the real rare treasures slip away. The most regrettable mistake between lovers may be caused by the woman herself.