Sexual Health
The room was witnessed by the child, and the embarrassing education three point warning
The room of an adult is a private matter, and it is so awkward to be witnessed by a child accidentally. No matter how young a child is, seeing a room has a negative psychological impact and may imitate the actions of the room. Therefore, for the healthy growth of children, parents should provide sex education to prevent adverse consequences from occurring.
It is not uncommon for children to unintentionally witness sexual activity due to poor living conditions (parents and children living in the same room, or even sharing the same bed), or due to inadequate parental supervision. Embarrassing aside, the question worth pondering is what impact does witnessing an adult's room have on sexual psychology?
According to research reports, children of different ages unconsciously witness adult sexual intercourse, with varying moods and reactions.
Children aged 3-4
There are many people who sleep with their parents, and there are also people who sleep with them. After the child went to bed, the parents did the room work. Couples forget about sex, their movements are too intense, or they are good at forgetting their shape. The joy they emit during sex awakens the child. When the child wakes up, they are not clear, their sleeping eyes are blurry, and when they see the movements of their parents' rooms, they are also monks, unable to touch their heads. It's unbelievable for parents to keep their children up late at night. I dozed off, didn't care about anything, turned over, and fell asleep again.
Parents should immediately stop moving and be cautious when they notice their child is awake; If a child asks a question in a daze, it is important to calmly and cleverly explain and prevaricate, as this can cover up the past and easily dilute the child's impression of witnessing sexual intercourse. However, if time and time again, over time, children will become suspicious and even turn from unintentional witnessing to intentional witnessing. So far, things have become complicated.
Children aged 5-6 or older
Unconsciously witnessing adult sexual intercourse without knowing the reason or secret, but a bit curious and happy. Curiosity, wanting to find something, happiness, wanting to imitate. They waited for the opportunity to witness again. They listen and speak among their peers. They raised a series of questions in front of reliable other adults. Encounter opportunities and play the game of love. Especially boys, disregarding the other person's will, forcibly play love games and roughly imitate the movements of the room.
Children aged 10-12