1. Men classify women
When interacting with women, men quickly divide women into two categories in their minds: "temporarily dating and seeing" and "long-term nurturing objects.". "For women, it may not be easy to understand, but from a man's perspective, there are significant differences between the two.". Of course, they won't tell you which category you are divided into, which is a typical manifestation of the different emotional needs of both sexes. Therefore, in the budding stage of love, we must open our eyes wide and use all our abilities to see through the sincerity of men. If you discover that you are just a playmate of the other party, you must get out and make a clean ending as soon as possible.
2. The reason why men want to keep distance from women
When men and women socialize, they sometimes choose to maintain a distance in order to confirm their love for each other. If there is any disagreement or misunderstanding between two people, a man will first try to widen the distance between them and calm them down. Contrary to women's desire to solve problems in the first place, men are committed to identifying differences, identifying causes, and finding ways to save them. Relatively speaking, men focus on being rational and calm when dealing with problems, while women focus on timeliness and expressing emotions. According to the characteristics and patterns of both sexes' emotions, when encountering problems, both parties will choose different outlets to seek solutions. "However, if a man has been searching for a long time and still cannot figure out what to do, he will have a strong sense of frustration, feeling that he cannot bring happiness to his lover, and will give up the love between two people.".
3. Men don't understand women's silence
When arguing, women often express their opinions and current psychological feelings very directly and frankly, sometimes in a more intense manner, which often drives men crazy. However, once you keep silent, it usually indicates that you have no intention of continuing communication and would rather choose silence at this time, which is a kind of "silent protest". This is actually a dangerous signal in communication and is even more terrifying than a loud argument.
However, men often do not perceive the seriousness of things, and they precisely cannot understand this point. According to men's habits, they all start to solve problems that actually arise. For one thing, if the truth doesn't hold water on their own side, they will have no words to answer - in the eyes of straight forward men, this is a natural response. Therefore, when women fall into silence, they will also take it for granted to believe that they have admitted their mistakes according to their own ideas. If there is something you cannot agree with, it is best to communicate it frankly and clearly to the other party. Silent negative resistance can only deepen misunderstandings and is not conducive to truly solving problems. Recognizing the emotional differences between the sexes is significant for managing a successful relationship.
4. Most men are not good at romance
Unlike women, men are really not good at romance. Perhaps romance itself is not in line with a man's "physique". Men carry too many missions and responsibilities, and they have to support many things. Romance is not related to them. Therefore, it is unfair to measure whether a man loves you with romance or not.