Post Date December, 02 2023
As the saying goes, there is no pot without touching the edge. It is true that even if love is like glue, as long as the couple's life begins, it is inevitable to quarrel, but the way each family quarrels is different. However, this kind of fuss must be moderate and cannot affect the feelings between husband and wife.
1. Don't involve other innocent people
When two people quarrel, although they may lose their senses temporarily because of the other's "arrogant arrogance", they can't involve irrelevant people even if they are angry. No matter parents, brothers and sisters, or close friends, when both of them are angry, the involvement of these innocent people will only continue to expand the battlefield, and even ossify each other's family circle and social circle, which will not help solve the conflict between husband and wife.
2. Don't deny each other's advantages and disadvantages
Couples can often be seen quarrelling on the road because the wife feels that her husband has not adopted his own shopping opinions or aesthetic standards. Even if her husband didn't listen to her this time, she would say: "You never ask my opinion, always make your own opinion" or "whatever you like! No matter what I do, you are not happy". Such a dialogue made out of nothing will make the other party feel that you are deliberately finding fault or bullying him. Even if you are forced to step down, I'm afraid he will have complaints against you in his heart. A wise wife should be good at giving each other "sugar coated bullets" to win without a fight.
3. Don't threaten each other in any way
Whether it is a wife or husband, it is easy to put the word "divorce" on the lips when they feel that they can't bear it. Especially for middle-aged people, life pressure is great, and there are many temptations in the real world, so it is easy to get angry. In order to avoid this situation, neither party should blame the other party, especially the other party for its mistakes; In addition, if the husband and wife are reconciled, they should agree not to mention anything a month ago. "Start over" is the best.
4. Don't fight in front of your parents
Every parent loves his or her children a little more, so when you quarrel violently in front of your parents, they often help their children, not the reasonable one. If the situation is serious, parents will also advise their children how to fight each other. In the long run, such marriage has evolved into a struggle for power, and the remaining feelings will be consumed in this seesaw battle sooner or later. When couples quarrel, it is best to avoid the elders and not complain about each other in front of their parents.
5. Don't run away from the problem
In marriage life, economic problems are the first to be solved. Only by negotiating the financial power can the disputes caused by the economy be reduced. At the same time, the harmonious sexual life between husband and wife is also very important, which can play a role of lubrication and buffering in the time of conflict and disagreement. Couples quarrel at the end of the bed and quarrel at the end of the bed. Communication problems have become the most direct factor for couples to get along with each other.
6. Understand the value of marriage
The reason why marriage exists is that it has its value. In marriage life, the husband and wife are united, and their benefits are decisive. Living together will form a common life habit. In the long run, you will know each other better, have a deeper understanding of each other, and work together for your family and your future. You will find that you are more ambitious and confident in your struggle than working alone.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
