Funny Women Lie Code: 20% of Lies She Likes Most
There is an interesting statistic: The actual price of clothes a woman buys for herself is often 20% higher than what she tells her husband. No matter how wealthy a husband is, he always feels that his wife buys too many clothes; No matter how many clothes a wife has, she always feels that the goods in her wardrobe are not rich enough. Therefore, in order to continuously replenish goods without causing conflicts and disputes with their husbands, wives will lie a little and conceal the true price.
The most interesting number is 20%: why not less, such as 10%? Why not more, like 30%?
That's because, in a liar's mind, 20% is somewhere in the middle of "lies" and "truth.". It is better not to tell 10% lies. The number is too small for a woman to be a liar in front of her husband. 30% of the lies are slightly too many. Once it rises to the beginning of "3", the moral bottom line of a person will sound an alarm.
Even white lies can face pressure from conscience. Therefore, women love to lie 20% of the time, because the burden is not great and the effect is not bad: if they underbid the price by 20%, they will have 20% less hostility towards their wife's new dress price; But if she underquoted the price by 20%, she wouldn't take it as cheating in her heart. There are many kinds of lies in life, and the person who lies the most will always tamper with only 20% of the truth. And 20% is not a lie, let's call it "putting on makeup for the truth.".
The code for lovers to get along harmoniously: Never make Congee on the phone in front of him
Many women love to talk on the phone Congee. Most husbands hate their wives' Congee on the phone. There are many examples of couples arguing over a phone conversation. Women feel that men are finding fault. In fact, women's phone Congee really drives men crazy.
The human brain often ignores things that can be predicted and have experience to rely on. During the meeting, you may fall asleep; During a conversation, your mind may wander... you can predict the outcome and your mental nerves will relax accordingly. People pay special attention to things that cannot predict the outcome, and their nerves become highly tense. Not sure what the truth is, a heart is always in my throat, crazy! Understanding a few words of information can deepen a person's inner sense of uncertainty and keep their mood on alert and in a state of panic.
A man may be tolerant enough to tolerate everything in the world, but mumbling to the phone by a woman inside can make him unbearable. As a woman, try not to talk on the phone Congee in front of her husband. He is not mean, he is really without a bottom in his heart. In the quiet room, a woman whispers to the earpiece, listening to the ears of the men around her, the most irritable voice in the world
Code of attraction for men and women: Too many girlfriends, men don't chase
The more same-sex friends girls have, the less heterosexual they are - men dare not come after them.
From the perspective of love psychology, whether men or women express their love to the opposite sex, it is always necessary to consider the risk of this "confession". If they are destined to fail and will be known by more people and lose face after failure, then the vast majority of men will choose to forbear the love in their hearts.
From a man's perspective, a woman is surrounded by friends all the time. Often, this is a signal of "rejection" to the opposite sex. Men are usually not interested in social women, feel a lack of mystery, and also have the illusion of being a gossip and vulgar woman. It boils down to the fact that men are afraid of being rejected, especially in public.
In addition, even if this woman doesn't have a friend on her side at the moment, she is always busy communicating with her friends on her mobile phone, or in her words, never leaving her friends. Faced with such a woman, men dare not easily express their love.
"The friends around women, the constant use of words, and the constant availability of electricity are all hidden psychological burdens for men -" If she doesn't mean anything to me, then I'll definitely be promoted around as a joke by her! "
If a woman is eager to bring the opposite sex closer, first of all, to a certain extent, she should maintain a certain degree of loneliness. When dealing with the opposite sex, try not to talk too much about your relatives and friends. If you want to attract people, you can best show them the loneliest side of your heart.
(Intern Editor: Wu Weijie)