Post Date December, 03 2023
Psychologically, men are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. Single men who go out for a drink or sleep at a friend's house every night are not necessarily fond of drinking or being very close to their friends. The real reason for them is that they are afraid of being alone. Therefore, married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel lonely and lonely.
Men attach far more importance to their families and women than women imagine. They are always accustomed to using their families and women as safe havens and safe havens. Therefore, they hope that their success and failure can be fully accommodated here, and they will always welcome them back with open arms.
1、 The more a woman loves, the braver a man becomes.
A man does not exclude being responsible for his family and women. If he can clearly know how much his wife loves him and how much she is intoxicated with the happiness of living with him, he will sacrifice everything for his family and wife without hesitation. On the contrary, if a man is unsure or even unnecessarily worried about his family and women's feelings, he will act like a rogue. When it comes to families and their own women, men like to hear answers like Mrs. Eisenhower's: "The greatest career life can bring to a woman is to be a wife."
2、 Have a broad mind and truly understand men's shortcomings and faults.
Men attach far more importance to their families and women than women imagine. They are always accustomed to using their families and women as safe havens and safe havens. Therefore, they hope that their success and failure can be fully accommodated here, and they will always welcome them back with open arms.
3、 Women must be hygienic and love cleanliness.
Although they are lazy and dirty themselves, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet, and who is indifferent to the chaotic home. Because they believe that their family and their women are their true faces.
4、 Men need the status of head of family.
Women always like to compete with men on the issue of the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really influence something. In fact, what men require is just a status quo. How can they be so lazy and take the responsibility of buying vegetables and washing dishes on their own? It's like in a constitutional monarchy where the prime minister decides everything, but cannot ignore the dignity and authority of the king.
5、 Men are afraid of loneliness.
Psychologically, men are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. Single men who go out for a drink or sleep at a friend's house every night are not necessarily fond of drinking or being very close to their friends. The real reason for them is that they are afraid of being alone. Therefore, married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel lonely and lonely. So when men lose the whereabouts of their women or they come back late or even don't come back, they panic like naked nuns in a busy city.
6、 Don't expect men to have the same appearance in their homes.
Women often complain that a man looks like a different person at home and abroad. Why is he always so polite to outsiders, but he acts like a tyrant to me? Why can't he treat me better too? In fact, women don't have to worry about it. "Politeness has always been a social necessity, and excessive politeness can do harm to the family without any benefit.". When a man is very polite to a woman, it only means that he has lost his love for her or has done something wrong to her.
7、 Women should not confront a man when he is angry.
The pressure and hardships that men experience in society are something that women cannot experience, and this negative emotion is likely to be brought home by them. Therefore, men often find fault with women or throw tantrums at them without any reason. When they get angry, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but are just venting their depressed feelings. At this time, men most need women's understanding and acceptance, and women need to pay a considerable price of grievance. Tit for tat quarrels undoubtedly add fuel to the fire for men.
8、 Men also have jealousy.
Men are no less jealous than women, and they are prone to life-threatening battles. There are far more men who die under the sword of duels between lovers than women who are jealous and tear their faces. If a woman truly loves her man, she should strive to understand the man's state of mind mixed with self-esteem and vanity, and be careful with men's paranoia and speculation. Proactively explaining the reason and process of interacting with other men is not only a genuine understanding and concern for their own men, but also a supervision by women over their own words and actions.
9、 Don't talk freely about what's wrong at home.
Domestic ugliness should not be publicized. The right and wrong in the family are inherently inexplicable matters. If added to the gossip from the outside world, a man's self-esteem will definitely collapse completely. At that time, even if a man intends to reconcile, it is difficult to ride a tiger. If a woman really wants to solve a problem, her only option is to close the door and negotiate slowly. Because the principle of men's domestic affairs is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in their internal affairs.
10、 Don't compare your husband and family to others.
In the eyes of men, comparing a woman's own man and family with others is a serious betrayal of her own man and family. They cannot kindly understand a woman's original intention and wishes, and only subjectively believe that a woman is criticizing them and expressing dissatisfaction. They will also think passionately, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately?
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
