When women and men first started dating, they thought that men were excellent and worthy of being entrusted with their lifelong partners. Then the two of them got together, but then the woman realized that after being together, men seemed to have changed their appearance. Although they were still worthy of being entrusted with their lifetime, they were no longer the same as the men they were when they first started dating.
Did the man reveal his true colors? Most women would think that way, but is that really the case? Let's take a look at the psychological changes of men and women after being together:
The first mindset
After a man has a woman's mentality, everyone has greed. Before a man has a woman, what is organized properly; After a man has a woman, he makes everything messy, not because he becomes lazy, but because he likes to watch a woman tidy up his things while complaining about his own mess. Men think this is a kind of happiness.
The second mindset
Men go to see a doctor when they are sick and can survive until they have no women; After a man has a woman, if he suffers from any minor illness, he should tell the woman that it is not because he has become delicate, but because he likes to see women worry about him and look anxious, and he feels that this is a kind of happiness.
The third mindset
Men do not need companionship when eating without women; After a man has a woman, even if the woman is not hungry, he still wants the woman to sit across from him and watch him devour like a child. The man thinks this is a kind of happiness; The so-called beautiful and delicious is the feeling that men like women to watch them eat.
The fourth mindset
Men are never tired until they have a woman; After having a woman, even if he is not tired, he still says he is tired. The man hopes that the woman can massage him with her gentle hands, and the man thinks this is a kind of happiness; Gentle touch can give men tactile pleasure, with maternal warmth inside.
The fifth mindset
Before there were no women, men would go home from work alone; After a man has a woman, if he occasionally doesn't see a woman after work, he feels very lonely and idle; In fact, men are often more afraid of loneliness than women. Under social pressure, the innate sense of loneliness requires the companionship of women.
The sixth mindset
Before a woman, a man always says on his lips, "A man cannot shed tears lightly; After men have women, they understand that it is because "only because they have not reached the point of sadness"; Don't think that men are strong, but in fact, their hearts are very fragile. With more care and care, men hope to receive more love after having women.
The seventh mindset
Before a man had a woman, he would always say 'loving someone is loving someone's shortcomings'; After men have women, they need to prove this statement with practical actions.
Eighth mentality
Before the absence of women, men always believed that women should do everything according to their wishes; After men have women, they understand that women also have their own circles and lifestyles, and men cannot interfere.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)