The 'pornographic culture' between couples belongs to the two person world, so it has nothing to do with dirt or indecency. Instead, it is very interesting and often emits a charming 'erotic fragrance'.
First of all, it must be explained that this is not about "pornography". The word order is different, and the connotation often changes, just like the two are different.
Husband and wife are the only legitimate partners. But after getting along for a long time, this kind of "sex" may become a routine "business" or "obligation", and some couples even insist on doing "that thing" on a certain day of each cycle, which may undermine the hallucinatory color of "sex".
Between couples, in addition to topics such as work, life, and children, there is also a content related to sex and emotions, which is called "erotic culture". It may be a type of joke, game, flirtation, or even coquettishness, anger, etc. between couples. And if these "insider" behaviors are implemented on others, they may be a form of sexual harassment, or even a rogue style.
Another point is that they may differ from other popular behaviors. Sometimes, only the two of them can understand some "jargon" and create a warm and sweet feeling of complicity. If there is a couple who likes to give their partner's private part a nickname, the husband jokingly refers to their wife's private part as "Oscar", while the wife mischievously refers to their husband's place as "cadre".
The "erotic culture" between couples, although not all related to sexual themes, is limited to the intimate world of the two, so it does not appear dirty or indecent. Instead, it is very interesting, emitting a mysterious "erotic fragrance".
For example, some gentlemen buy sexy underwear for their wives. "Intimate" sanitary pads, etc. These are all beautiful behaviors; And men often like to make some sexual jokes, which may not necessarily be "yellow" for wives, but rather have a humorous side. Friend A Liang, his wife calls him "Pig Brother Liang" in the bedroom. Before going to bed, he always drinks a glass of good wine to cheer him up. Once, he forced his wife to take a few sips, but when she refused, he said, "For the sake of having sex after drinking, I drank this glass of bar, baby!" His wife was very clever, and when she heard that he had something to say, she was tempted to take a few sips.
A woman who writes poetry likes to sprinkle some pink rose petals on a mat on the 16th night of the lunar calendar (referring to summer here), obviously to create a loving atmosphere. Holding a faint fragrance in his arms, his husband will surely turn from feeling to excitement. Sometimes, it's also a bit vulgar, as mentioned in humorous laughter. When her husband returns late, she leaves a note on the dining table: "The wine is in the cabinet, the dishes are in the pot, and your wife is in the bed! There are countless expressions of charm, so charming that it makes one's heart beat!
A wife accompanied her husband to a football game, but on the way home, she looked weak. Her husband, in order to inspire her, said "maliciously": "Wife, you worked so hard today, I feel so sorry! After returning home, I will take care of that..." with a sinister smile on his face.
The lady suppressed a smile and deliberately replied in a mischievous tone, "What's that? Aunt (menstruation) is here today, no way!" The gentleman pretended to be innocent and innocent, "I mean, I want to help you mop the floor, wash the clothes, water the flowers..." Then, pretending to wake up from a big dream, he exclaimed, "Hmm - you're lascivious
After the husband was busy preparing the meal in the kitchen, the wife playfully ran over and whispered in his ear, "You're so considerate, but if you make me 'warm', I'll also make you 'lustful'
This is the "erotic culture" of couples, which is funny, fun, relaxed, lively, very realistic, and has a bit of comedy color. Romantic but not vulgar, it seems like "art in the room", but it also has a great deal of flexibility in life. True love cannot avoid "sex", so why give up its charm and romance?
(Intern Editor: Huang Jiazhen)