Post Date December, 03 2023
Due to the influence of Chinese conservative ancient Confucian culture, many people have avoided the issue of sexual intercourse. Many people consider choosing a spouse based on their appearance, figure, and family conditions, which is the unfortunate event caused by many sexual disharmonies or sexual dysfunction after marriage.
Therefore, before marriage, both men and women should go to the hospital to receive sexual health inquiries to understand whether they have sexual diseases and whether their sexual psychology is healthy.
Given that some content cannot be identified in hospitals in the short term, and there are few such consultation institutions in China, lovers must learn some sexual knowledge by themselves in their relationships, and pay more attention to the other party. Both parties must also be honest and frank with each other.
The sexual desire intensity of both spouses should be harmonious
No two eggs in the world look the same, and no two people have exactly the same sexual desire. A person with strong sexual desire chooses a person with low sexual desire, and it is difficult to have harmonious sexual life after marriage. How to learn about the other party's situation? The only way is for both parties to "wipe away" their faces and truthfully tell each other about their own situation.
The intensity of sexual desire is divided into two levels: the first level is the degree of sexual physiological strength. American sexologist Kinsey has found through a large number of investigations that puberty is based on the first menstrual period and ejaculation. The earlier you start, the stronger your lifelong sexual ability will be, manifested by a high frequency of sexual activity and more continuous sexual activity. This finding is suitable for 85% of people.
Male sexual ability is strongest between the ages of 18 and 25, and gradually decreases irreversibly thereafter, decreasing by about half every 10 years. Women's sexual ability is strongest between the ages of 35 and 45, and then begins to decline, but the rate of decline is slower than that of men of the same age.
Both spouses should have the same attitude towards sex
The strength of a person's sexual psychology directly reflects the intensity of sexual desire. Men and women who have been exposed to new cultures and ideas since childhood, are willing and good at discovering fun and romance in their sexual lives, have a strong ability to coordinate sexual life with their spouses, and have a rich sexual psychology. People who live in a foolish and closed environment often experience sexual psychological biases and barriers.
Men with a lower education level tend to have a low frequency of sexual activity and neglect sexy communication. If a woman with a positive personality and attitude and high requirements for psychological romantic feelings marries him, she will feel that he is too "rude" and "impersonal", and the man will also feel that she is too "lewd" and "busy".
On the contrary, if a sexually conservative woman marries a man with a positive sexual attitude, she will feel that the man is "destroying" herself, and the man will feel that the woman is a puppet, and her sexual life is boring and boring.
Couples should be of the same age
The sexual desire of peers is generally comparable. The older a person is, the lower their sexual ability is. Therefore, from a sexual perspective, it is generally believed that young and middle-aged people with strong sexual desire and high sexual requirements are not suitable for marrying older people. Generally, the age difference between the two parties should not be greater than 15 years old.
The sexual life of the elderly remarries is mainly to satisfy their sexual desire for contact and touch, so the size of their sexual ability is irrelevant. However, if individual men have strong sexual abilities, they should choose a woman with similar sexual abilities, preferably under the age of 60, because women over the age of 60 have poor vaginal secretion.
"Two overweight people are also not suitable for marriage, as overweight people may cause joint degeneration, which can cause difficulties and other inconveniences in choosing a suitable position for sexual intercourse.".
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
