Post Date November, 17 2024
Q: We are a couple sitting around looking around and not having any physical contact for three years. Our daughter-in-law is not very interested and gradually decreases her mood. We go out together on the surface, sign up for parties with friends and relatives, buy fruits together, and have our friends eat at home. However, we are not welcome to have sex at night and are rejected. We say to him, 'Aren't everyone very good?'?
A woman who submitted it to a civil servant online, like me, has no relationship with her husband. Everyone has developed a tendency towards marriage relationships, which are long-distance relationships, one south and one north, with a maximum of one visit per month. At least one can consider my shortcomings and share more and more things. At this point, what should we do next?
a: According to scientific research in the UK, 43% of women have experienced some form of wife's illness, which is low libido and lack of libido. Perhaps she already has no libido and has followed you before. Now that she is in the middle and old age and her children have grown up, she feels very free without sex, or she feels that you cannot think about her in your heart and doesn't speak up much. Of course, another possibility is that her female menopause is coming early, She cares about integration and cannot care about married life.
Feeling physically and mentally lonely, painful, and suffering in marital life, but couples don't know when they don't communicate much and don't speak their hearts. Because being rejected is a setback and a loss of face, there is a tendency to choose to develop outward. Your body and mind are temporarily entrusted, but you know you are dead and still have troubles when considering leisure.
What to do is a difficult decision for you. If you want to resume your marriage, extramarital affairs cannot develop again, and you want to be bold and unrestrained. The crisis should now be adjusted and discussed with a marriage counselor as soon as possible to see if you can do it. Then, speak openly to your wife about your extramarital affair, express your heartache, and invite her to discuss marriage life together. The two should discuss whether to rebuild trust, restore intimacy, or break up and become friends.
