Most men hope that their wife is a strong woman, because such a woman not only helps them take care of their family, but also plays a significant role in the development of their husband's career.
Most men hope that their wife is a strong woman, because such a woman not only helps them take care of their family, but also plays a significant role in the development of their husband's career.
Of course, it's not easy to be a Wangfu woman. She stood behind the man, guarding his nest, tying his stomach, and holding his heart; Put on armor for him, watch him mount a war horse, and then throw him a flower and a kiss to bravely go on the expedition
The hardships and tears behind these are often overlooked by men. So we are now advocating for the new faction of Wangfu women, who not only prosper their husbands but also take care of themselves, gain recognition from men, and enrich their own lives.
The prosperity of a woman is not determined by her appearance, but by a reflection of her comprehensive qualities. To be a trendy wangfu woman, you need to possess some "qi" (marked) and discard some "qi" (crossed).
Coquettish and arrogant
After all, women are women, and they still need to have a bit of coquettishness to show their true colors.
If a woman does not act coquettishly, it is inevitable that she will be so beautiful that she will be afraid and lose the desire to be intimate; Women are not unruly and lack some charm. They are too peaceful and lose the desire to be conquered. Why are there not many women who like Lin Chi-ling, but many men who like her? It seems that men really like women who act coquettishly and coquettishly. Such women make them feel that being a man is very satisfying and has a strong desire to conquer.
Of course, if there were a woman standing in the living room at home holding a rose to welcome her husband's return, she would probably scare half of his life - just to give an example, proving that coquettishness is a character that women cannot lack, but it is important to hold it in moderation and never copy it.
Arrogance
A woman with a bit of coquettishness and occasional tantrums is harmless, but a woman who thinks she is stronger than a man and then bosses and domineering can be a headache for men. On the street, women often see men cursing at their noses, while men frown and swallow their anger. This is not something that a trendy wangfu woman should do.
Pyrotechnic gas
Just being coquettish is not enough, after all, life is not romantic. So, some fireworks are necessary.
But many women now refuse to go to the kitchen. They believe that once a woman enters the kitchen, she falls into a period of yellow faced women revolving around the pot, and will continue to fall, unable to remove the smoke and gas for life. Men will eventually get tired of her due to this irremovable smoke and gas, and even abandon her.
But can a woman who is so beautiful that she doesn't like the fireworks in the world really make men love her more? In fact, both men and women, from an eye pleasing point of view, like the blue eyed beauty in fashion magazines, like Lin Chi-ling's swaying sexy body at the Golden Bell Award Ceremony in Taiwan, China, China, because they can never have a substantive relationship with our life, at best it can only be regarded as masturbation.
Men and women marry to make a living - how do you know that if Lin Chi-ling gets married, she will not enter the kitchen?
Of course, women don't have to cook every meal every day. Instead, let's consider cooking as a way of adjusting our mood and lifestyle. Of course, men cannot be an absolute bystander either. You need to take action and occasionally show off. Everything needs to be done by two people together to have a romantic atmosphere.
Lipid powder gas
All day long, I know how to paint my eyebrows and mouth, change clothes and spray perfume. In addition, I don't do anything. I can't do anything well. I'm tired when I go downstairs to buy a bag of salt. I have to ask for half a day's work when I finally wash a piece of clothes. Of course, I won't go down to the kitchen to cook a meal for a man and cook soup for a time. I'm afraid I will dirty my new clothes and smell of oil smoke.
When a man is with such a woman, he may initially treat her as a little girl, take care of her carefully, or use her as a vase to face silly music every day. Over time, it is inevitable that he will be angry, tired, and disappointed.
When a woman, apart from her beautiful appearance, has no help for a man and only causes him trouble, what does such a woman want to do?
Bookish aura
If she only revolves around the pot every day, how is such a woman different from a full-time cook? What men want is not only to satisfy their stomachs, but more importantly, to satisfy their hearts, or what we call thoughts.
Everyone says that Changsha is a city with a strong culture, and the Hunan girls are also beautiful, but the beauty is a bit pungent and barbaric, with few "ladies" and "bookies". In fact, a woman who loves reading, her heritage, and the temperament she exudes are the ones that truly move men. As the old saying goes, having a poetic and scholarly aura in one's abdomen can lead to a sense of self cultivation. Reading more and reading more, with an inner to outer temperament, will naturally make men appreciate it and forget to leave.
Vulgarity
If you don't have half a drop of ink in your stomach, of course it will become tacky. This vulgar thing, even if you don't speak, will emanate from your eyes, and you can't even hide it. Where did a tacky woman come from? Where did you get your insights? How can you help a man's future and career? Moreover, facing a tacky woman, a man will definitely have a full stomach. Even if you have a face full of Wangfu moles, where can Wangfu be?
Atmosphere
With a scholarly aura, a woman will naturally be grand.
There is a very funny thing. When a woman was single, she used to sleep with a hot water bag in the winter. After getting married, although she had a living "heater", she kept the hot water bag for commemoration. My husband felt useless and casually said, "Why are you keeping this?" A few days later, the hot water bag disappeared. Perhaps it was accidentally lost while tidying up the clutter, but the woman firmly believed that her husband must have thrown away the hot water bag while she was not paying attention.
Therefore, every day I recite and complain about my husband, who feels very wronged and then swears and swears. But women have formed a habit of saying, 'You have no conscience, you even secretly dumped my hot water bag.' Every time they have any dissatisfaction with men, they will say it together: 'You have no conscience, you even secretly dumped my hot water bag... Men can't laugh or cry, not only can't hear the three words' hot water bag', but recently they even feel dizzy when they hear 'hot water'.
A woman's aura is also reflected in many aspects, such as treating her husband's friends. Many women keep their husbands too strict and like to tie men to their waistbands, but this practice is actually very bad. Many women once get married, their husband is their entire world. However, if a man sees his wife as their entire world, it can only be said that he is as narrow and unproductive as a woman.
Men need friends, so let's not say 'it's easy to have more friends' for now. You should at least have this viewpoint: spending time with friends can promote marital relationships.
As a new Paiwang couple, it is necessary to give each other appropriate space and have a broad mind to integrate into each other's lives.