The "Mystery of Not Lifting" of Thirty Men
Think about it. Being reprimanded by your boss for 12 hours, cursing your head, making dozens of work phone calls every day, replying to and deleting a large number of emails, or colluding with and selling out to colleagues at work, coupled with the constant threat of economic pressure from unemployment and layoffs, these things simply make people uninteresting. Also, I spend my time outside of work thinking about things at work, so it's no wonder that men are troubled by not doing anything! The following are the real reasons why unnamed Chinese men aged 30 to 40 feel like they don't mention it:
1. Money! Money! Money!
Worrying about money is one of the biggest hidden worries that can make a man feel depressed, and this inaction often occurs after spending too much money. "At the age of 32, Taurus Jack worked as a department store planner. It was a standard job with less money, more work, and more expense. He once socialized with a female model who loved to buy famous brands and enjoy them, and he didn't want to have sex.", He said, "Damn it, I just used my rent to take her to a big meal and buy a leather bag. She also ordered four dishes and swiped my card to buy an LV bag. Then does she want me to be a stallion?"
2. Stressful relationships
"Yuanyuan is married, and I really want to...", "My mother asked me yesterday, 'We're both married, when are we going to buy a house?'" 38 year old Pisces interior designer Akai believes that such a stressful conversation can definitely make men feel weak. ". "All men have a part that is still like a child, and when faced with unresolved problems or complex and heavy relationships, their only solution is to turn around and run away, so if you don't want him to hold up, you have to control your mouth.".
3. Bad news
"How can I handle the stock market, which is constantly falling every day?" Not only does Xiaoguang, a 30 year old Libra who has invested all his savings in the stock market, but even used his house mortgage to play with stocks, do business on a radio station. As a newly married man, he is intent on making a fortune, so he has also mortgaged the house left by his parents. He is not good at investing. Recently, he can be said to be in a state of decline. No wonder he does not have the desire to have sex.