The mother-in-law is the best and the husband is stupid and filial. How can I live in such a day

[Chief complaint of the case]

My husband is foolish and filial. In one word, we will explain the tragic fact of our marriage.

My stupidest thing is that I didn't inspect his family before I got married. I always take it for granted that my husband is good, so his family will be no worse. It's funny. Don't repeat my mistakes before you get married. I regret it. If I knew my mother-in-law was such a person, I might not have chosen to marry her.

It's really speechless. What my mother-in-law did. My husband is from the town, and he is more ambitious. Now he has a firm foothold in a well-known foreign enterprise, and his career is very beautiful. However, my husband's mother is a rural woman, not my regional discrimination, but my mother-in-law really does too many things, and she is a selfish old woman.

First of all, she thought that her son had made money, so she used him as a cash cow and desperately asked us for money. My husband gave me the salary, but his sister went to college, and the tuition and living expenses were all paid by her husband, so I had to bear it. The first time I was inexperienced, and my husband was a little unhappy to bear these things. I didn't say anything, but then I found that no matter what major or minor matters in his family, which kind of relatives, In short, my mother-in-law has a way to ask my husband for money, which is a little annoying.

Is it so easy for us to make money? Did our money fall from the sky? But if she wants money, her mother-in-law has to be upright. Last month, she bought her sister a new mobile phone and said that her husband should also prepare her sister's dowry. What is this?? When my husband first married me, the dowry was his savings from his own work over the years. My mother-in-law didn't support him at all. My husband was also stupid and filial. What my mother-in-law said was what she said. What's more, my mother-in-law was extremely indifferent to me, just like I robbed her filial son. She was very bad at me. From birth to the full moon, my mother-in-law only came once and left within two hours, Before leaving, he asked his husband for a living allowance.

After doing so much, my mother-in-law didn't even say thank you. His sister is also a white-eyed wolf. She also learned to ask her brother for something with her mother-in-law. Of course, it's the same. I don't know when to pour this kind of inverted post? When I communicate with my husband, he becomes silent and sulky. At most, it is not easy for my parents to raise us. I am angry. My parents ask us if we want a penny? Why are there so many things in your family? Why do you have to feed so many mouths to make money? It's just his mother. I can't say my mother-in-law has thick skin.

Anyway, I told him that half of the money in this family is also earned by me. You are not allowed to subsidize your mother-in-law like this. As a result, my husband quietly left the quarterly bonus (their company's quarterly bonus is paid in cash) to remit to her mother-in-law. It's really annoying, because there's been a lot of quarrels about it. Almost as soon as my mother-in-law hangs up, I'll fight with him. In this way, the house will be broken up!

[Expert diagnosis]

A man doesn't spend much time. His only wish is to be filial to his parents. If you can't understand and support this desire, and you can't get along with his family, he will start to get along with you.

Wives should remember this sentence: wives can be changed, but mothers cannot. You should see clearly that for a man, he loves his wife on the premise that his wife and mother-in-law are at peace. Nearly half of the families with poor relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have another mistress outside. He felt aggrieved. A woman wanted to listen to him, so they came together.

As for how to sort out the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the most important thing is not to emphasize whether money should be given, but to change your husband's idea and let him know how to respond appropriately to the mother-in-law's requirements. Don't argue with your mother-in-law, and don't tell her right and wrong in front of her husband. The most important thing is to let your husband understand that filial piety is the obligation, and helping the family is the responsibility of being a brother. But everything should be done with a degree.