Post Date December, 03 2023
Regarding the habit of being lascivious, it is not limited to a certain type of person. As for the issue of how to make friends with the opposite sex, there is a very significant situation, which is that among men, there are actually many people who prefer to pursue older women, and this trend seems to be becoming increasingly fierce.
Although these men have grown up, they can not grow up spiritually under the love and protection of their mothers. Therefore, they have the ambivalence of Oedipus complex in their hearts.
This type of man lacks autonomy and independence in everything he does. If no one guides him from the sidelines or takes the lead in demonstrating, he will become timid and hesitant. Of course, he also lacks independent autonomy and motivation in sexual life.
Originally, interactions between men and women were generally male driven, but this tendency has become increasingly weak recently. Therefore, the aforementioned men inevitably harbor a sense of terror towards women. Under the domination of terror, they do not know how to maintain moderate interaction with women, and their attitudes and interests towards women have always been negative.
Young people like this not only perform well in heterosexual relationships, but also lack a sense of independence and autonomy in their work. Even if given any homework, they lack their own opinions and constantly expect evaluations from them. When he is among a group of colleagues or subordinates, he dislikes the position of a mentor. Anyway, this type of person always likes to make friends with older people, which gives him a sense of security and stability.
Another kind of situation is the inferiority complex of sex. This kind of person is slightly different from the above-mentioned men with Oedipus complex and ambivalence psychology. Moreover, people who harbor a sense of inferiority in terms of sexuality also exhibit two completely different extreme manifestations.
The first manifestation is to constantly invite women and, in a half joking manner, boast to the other party about his own lascivious behavior, while deliberately showing how he likes women. At first glance, he looks like an old hand in the romantic scene.
In fact, this type of person is actually harboring a sexual inferiority complex and deliberately pretending to have an opposite attitude. In other words, this is due to the mentality formed by reaction that is being held high.
To be honest, among a group of men who intentionally engage in lascivious behavior, there are also many people who belong to homosexuality? From this, it can be seen that this man is like a paper tiger with a strong exterior and a weak interior.
Another manifestation is extreme cleanliness towards women. The German philosopher Kant remained very serious about women's relationships throughout his life. It is said that if his friend mentioned marriage or matters related to men and women to Kant, Kant could hardly contain his anger.
Kant listed words related to marriage as taboo at home, so some speculate from these facts that Kant may have a strong sense of inferiority in terms of sexuality. He always adheres to the creed of not getting married and not being close to women, and his faith in this aspect is almost more focused and devout than the philosophical creed of faith. No wonder someone speculates that he may harbor a sense of sexual inferiority.
(Intern Editor: Wu Weijie)
