Q:
My husband is regarded as a high position in the eyes of ordinary people. Everyone also regards me as an official wife. But unlike some people in this circle, my husband still pays attention to his own influence. He usually behaves well. There are few times when I feel uneasy in these years.
However, just a week ago, I suddenly found that my family was also targeted by the junior.
That day, I sat down to apply the facial mask after taking a bath as usual. Just then, my mobile phone rang, and I saw two words "question mark" on the screen. My heart suddenly jumped, and I was nervous for no reason. These two words awakened my memory of the day half a year ago.
That was the first half of the year. One day my phone rang, and I said hello, but there was a silence inside. I gave it two more times, but it was still silent. I wondered who was so bored and said, "I'll hang up if you don't talk." A woman's voice inside said, "I'm looking for Chen Ju." That means my husband. I said, he is not with me now, who are you? Is there anything I can tell you? There's no sound, then hang up.
Naturally, I was suspicious, and it made me suspicious. I thought for a moment. My husband used my phone an hour ago, and his cell phone was dead. Then he went out. At that time, I saved my mobile phone number and used two words "question mark" as my name.
Later, I pretended not to ask my husband, saying that it was your colleague just now. I called to find you. Maybe it was urgent, do you know? He said, Oh, I know. Who do I ask? How do I know my phone number? He said that he was a clerk in a subordinate unit, and was anxious to find him to urge the materials. He was hiding, and there was no way. It seems that I still have to work overtime in the office at night to get the materials out and use them for the site meeting next week. I said OK, don't delay. This matter passed at that time.
Half a year later, the same woman called again. I couldn't help but stop being suspicious. Because of the nature of his husband's work, I also have the mobile phone numbers of several people he often deals with here. There is no small clerk who needs to keep in touch after half a year. Now I'm cold except for my heart. Do I have to confront my husband? How can we find out the mistress?
A:
Now, the key is not how to find the mistress, but how to break the relationship between her and your husband (assuming that the extramarital affair is true). How the truth needs to be further confirmed, but as far as the current situation is concerned, your husband is very good at hiding. However, the mistress who dares to call the main room to inquire about the whereabouts of a man is usually not easy to deal with. If you are willing to cooperate, our marriage experts can help you. If you encounter a third party in your marriage, be sure to deal with it as soon as possible, so that your spouse and the third party can reach a tacit understanding and fight together. At that time, your situation will be more difficult.