The method of newborn not affecting marital sexual life: Couple sexual life should also pay attention to these matters

In recent years, the situation of newborns affecting marital life has indeed increased.

This impact is mainly reflected in the following aspects: firstly, mothers will spend more time taking care of their children, and their emotions will be scattered. The level of focus on their husbands is definitely not as high as before, which makes them feel neglected. Secondly, children in China are generally used to sleeping with their parents, and many even get used to sleeping between them after entering primary school, which seriously hinders sexual life between couples. Thirdly, some women undergo a cesarean section, which can have a psychological impact on both parties. Fourthly, modern people face a lot of pressure from work and children, and are more likely to "vent their anger". For example, some wives may criticize their husbands for not doing household chores or believe that their husbands do not earn enough money.

At this point, we hope that both parties can sit down and have a good conversation with a problem-solving attitude. Both parties need to re plan their lives and find solutions, rather than complaining about each other. We can learn from some foreign experiences. In European and American countries, children are generally allowed to sleep independently in separate rooms after the age of 3; Usually, a nanny will be invited to take care of the child regularly, so as to have time to go out. These can be used as a reference for families raising their own children. If the child is taken care of by an elder on weekdays, then on weekends, we can discuss with friends with young children to send the child to their home one week, ask them to take care of it on their behalf, and bring their child to their own home one week. In this way, parents can rest and have time to relax themselves. Then the couple can dress up and go shopping, have a meal, and watch a movie.

In addition, after returning home from work and taking care of the children after dinner, both parties are already very tired. At this time, they may not be able to have sex and may also make the other party feel uncomfortable. So it's better to have high-quality sex in the early morning when both parties wake up and each other has plenty of energy. It's okay to have a shorter time.

Chinese people are somewhat strange about postpartum asexuality, but for more people, it is a state of balance. If neither party believes that this will affect the marriage, then don't try to change it.