Being single and helpless, finding a true love; Break up in love, find an excuse. Breaking up is not sad, God opens a window when he closes a door; Breaking up is not shameful. If there is love, there will be breaking up. Breaking up is the green leaf that sets off the red flower of love. Breaking up is very sad, loving each other for countless days, but in the end, it's just nothing; Breaking up is very shameful. If you have a heart to break up today, who dares to ask tomorrow? As a gentleman, when falling in love or breaking up, there is no excuse. Love should be genuine and sincere, and even the parting should be open and straightforward. Making excuses for breaking up, even if one can confuse fake with real, is also a lasting legacy.
1. You have too many shortcomings
When pursuing women, they were a perfect artwork without any flaws, and they were the goddesses in men's minds. Time flies, time changes, and the artwork is still that artwork, but the goddess is no longer that goddess. Picking at the root and picking at the thorns, women suddenly develop many shortcomings, and cannot help but admire men's sharp eyes. A man uses this as a reason to break up. Poor women cannot see the man's face clearly, and would rather swear to change these false desires and sins, than follow the man with a shameless face. Until after breaking up, women blame themselves for their own shortcomings.
2. We are not suitable
When I first met, I fell in love at first sight; Tired now, things change. When pursuing, there is an unparalleled understanding and often joy in the kind of heart that resonates, but in the end, a man's inappropriate words eliminate all the beautiful memories. Men use this as a reason to break up, with ample reasons and obvious facts. Women cannot see the truth clearly, but instead blame themselves for not being able to cooperate well with men. After the breakup, the woman continued to think about the man's fabrications and rearrange her direction of choosing a partner. One day, she would also like to thank the man who gave her guidance.
3. Love has influenced my career
When in love, men see love as a catalyst for their careers, and work and love are equally important. Both in the workplace and in the workplace are proud. When it comes to breaking up, men use love's impact on their careers as a reason to break up. Women understand that men prioritize their careers, and good men are ambitious. If possible, women are willing to wait for men to succeed in their careers before continuing their relationship with men. Unexpectedly, time is always the greatest enemy of humans. Years later, men and women will start their own families, and the fake excuse for breaking up has long been forgotten.
4. We have no future
When in love, the heavens and the earth shatter, vows of eternal love, and a lifelong commitment, it turns out to be just an illusion. A man has enough foresight to analyze the direction of love from countless aspects, and the final conclusion is that the end of love is the end. The woman nodded tacitly towards the man's analysis and admired him for his intelligence. Long pain is better than short pain, and choosing a day is better than bumping into it. Since we can't walk out of the future, it's better to end it early. A few years later, the woman gained her own happiness, and recalling the foresight of a man, she couldn't help but marvel at how right the choice was at that time.
5. My parents do not agree
In the days of falling in love, men and women only see each other and cannot pretend to be any third party, including friends and family. The man swears that as long as I love you and you also love me, that's enough. No one can separate us. When a man realized the pressure of his family, his confidence wavered. He proposed a breakup based on his parents' interference, and the woman was skeptical. However, looking at the man's troubles, she remembered the phrase 'loving him is to see him happy', and finally bravely let go. Finally, she left the man with a touching sentence: 'In this life, you are my favorite.'.
6. I have done what I'm sorry for you, and I no longer have the right to love you
A man once promised a woman: I will not do anything wrong to you in this life. But promises are never reliable. A man is moved to another love, and under the immense pressure exerted by the other party, he must make a choice. So he confessed his mistake in order to gain the sympathy and tolerance of the woman. The woman planned to give the man another chance, but the man had already strengthened his will and no longer accepted the woman's forgiveness on the grounds of not being qualified. Helplessly, the woman had to let the man go, but in her heart, there was no hatred towards the man, only regret.
7. Love turns out to be nothing
Life is truly precious, but love is even more valuable. If it is for freedom, both can be thrown away. A man once said to a woman, "I am willing to be your slave and serve you for the rest of my life." As time goes by, men see love as a constraint, women as a burden, and the pursuit of freedom has become their first goal. Men tell women how precious and desirable freedom is, and love is the biggest obstacle to freedom. Watching the man completely indifferent to love, the woman had no choice but to break up, and the man thus escaped the curse of abandoning the woman.
8. You're not listening to me anymore
A woman once said to a man, 'I listen to everything you say.'. This sweet words expressing loyalty have become a tool for men to use. When a man intentionally wants to break up, he deliberately finds out some things that make women difficult and asks them to do what they want. When a woman goes against the man's will, the man uses this as a reason to indicate that love has come to an end. Women are unable to make effective resistance when faced with men's well-founded accusations. When men break up, women are still thinking about the charges imposed on them by men. When they understand that it is a trap, everything is too late.
9. I no longer love you
A calm breakup is what we advocate, but sometimes being calm is also a trick for men. A man has done something wrong and wants to abandon a woman. In the process of finding excuses to break up, he is digging his brains and taking the bottom out of his wits, but he can't find a suitable one. Finally, he suddenly realized that since there was no reason to hide from women, it was better to open the door and meet them with ease. So, the man spoke directly about the fact that he didn't love. The woman was a bit shocked when she first heard this, but in the face of this frankness, she felt that the man was very dignified, so she cooperated very well and fulfilled the man.