Post Date December, 03 2023
It's not easy for a stranger to go from being familiar to falling in love, and then to getting married. Especially after getting married, many small problems and conflicts have emerged. This is a common situation that has just come into contact with marriage, and no one can avoid it. As the post-80s generation in the new era, the marriage life of young couples is full of loopholes. If both parties act recklessly and no one is willing to compromise, then the marriage will come to an end.
Are young people in the new era so flashy and superficial? No, this is not what we want to see. Although the post-80s generation is young, we cannot be hasty or frivolous. We must work hard to adapt, tolerate, and accept marriage. The long-term path of a husband and wife ultimately requires learning to respect and understand each other. Both parties need to strengthen their self-cultivation, balance and be open-minded, and respect each other as guests, so that the relationship can deepen.
After marriage, post-80s husbands should no longer consider themselves as "great young masters". In addition to striving for progress in their careers and creating a good quality of life for their families, they should also care more about and love their wives, becoming a solid umbrella for their wives; The wives of the post-80s generation are the lubricant of family life, and they need to be able to handle the subtle relationships between the family and its members. This requires post-80s girls to quickly switch roles after marriage, give up their "golden" airs, understand how to create a harbor of love for their husbands, understand how to respect and care for their elders, and strive to become a driving force for their husband's career.
Seven Conservation Laws for Young Couples born in the 1980s
1. The Law of Happiness: True happiness comes when you no longer search for it on your own, but rather want to give happiness to your loved one;
2. The Law of Negligence: As the saying goes, "Every man may stumble, every horse may stumble." They are not afraid of making mistakes, but are afraid of making them again and again. Couples must strive to correct their mistakes and never make them again;
3. The Law of Silence: Once married, you are no longer a child. Don't fight for everything, especially for men. Proper and timely silence is the best way to avoid escalating conflicts;
4. The Law of Motivation: The driving force of marriage comes from both spouses, comforting, praising, and helping each other, which is the truth of mutual knowledge and love;
5. The Law of Receiving Qi: Who "receives" the anger of a loved one if you don't "receive" it? Since you choose to be with him/her for life, you must be tolerant and endure everything of the other party;
6. The Law of Status: No matter how high and mighty you are outside, you are all equal when you return home. Even for men, they have to "devalue themselves". This is not beneath dignity, to borrow a sentence: Men are not afraid of their wives, but respect their wives. What is a man who can bend and stretch, and what is it to be "servile" to his wife? Of course, women should not go too far, occasionally acting as "little maids" is also possible;
7. The Law of Communication: Communication is the best way to maintain emotional warmth. Both spouses should take the initiative to act as listeners. When a loved one has complaints or hardships, just listen quietly and give a few words of comfort;
8. The Law of Sexual Harmony: This is quite important. Sex is the most intimate and expressive act of love between men and women. Of course, that kind of lewd and licentious behavior cannot be counted. In short, couples should not lack sex, nor should sex be hindered. Be sure to actively cooperate with the other party and explore sexual issues together to make it more fulfilling and harmonious.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
