Post Date December, 02 2023
Men often make mistakes before women become foolish! The best way for new women to protect themselves during dating is a bit like crossing a Chinese crossroads: stop, watch, and pass.
When interviewed by me, Xiaojing, who claimed to be "out of mud and not stained", spoke very calmly. The girl, who was adorned with jewelry on all her joints, proudly said, "I chose to buy these things myself, and none of them were given by my boyfriend
They like to be weekend lovers, gathering once a week to 'avoid troubling each other'. Yes, loving someone can actually be troublesome, which is why I have always advocated a new polite phrase: "I'm sorry, I love you!" Xiaojing and her boyfriend are always at a distance. She never sticks to people, and even when she goes out to eat, she implements a strict AA system, and no one owes anyone.
Men often make mistakes before women become foolish! The best way for new women to protect themselves during dating is a bit like crossing a Chinese crossroads: stop, watch, and pass.
Yu Ju has his own apartment, which is not big but very exquisite. She is a girl with ideas, so she moved out from her parents and lived alone, but she always goes back to her hometown in the suburbs to accompany her parents on weekends. She said, "My wings are hard and I like the feeling of being single." However, she, who was originally happy and carefree, is going to bid farewell to being single recently because she "had to get married early"!
At the age of 27, Yu Ju looks much younger than her actual age and still retains the appearance of a pure student. She is dressed in a white dress, with a clean and refined appearance of a flowing lotus.
Three years ago, she met Gang and has been in love with him ever since. They love each other very much, and both parents acknowledge it. Yu Ju originally planned to marry her boyfriend in 2008, but in her opinion, long-distance love is the only interesting thing. At that time, she would go to honeymoon for her honeymoon and watch the Olympic Games... It was the sweetest and most sacred dream in her heart.
A few months ago, on a night with a moon, there was a power outage in her residential area. She had to go to a movie with her boyfriend just now and thought that after watching the movie, the power should be restored.
When her boyfriend escorted her downstairs, the security guard told them that the electricity would not be delivered until the next day. While hesitating, Yu Ju volunteered and said, "I'll accompany you tonight!" Thinking about it, she agreed. She is a woman who is afraid of the dark, and she should be trustworthy if she hasn't "touched her finger" for just three years. Normally, he is only allowed to "hold hands, hug and kiss at most", and he is very cooperative and obedient, and will not violate rules.
However, could it be a mistake to introduce him into the room tonight? After all, this is the first time 'roommate'... Just as she was about to take out the key to open the door, a cat screamed and ran by, so scared that Ju threw her head into her boyfriend's arms. As a result, she strengthened her determination to stay with him overnight. She, like Empress Wu Zetian of the Tang Dynasty, was the most afraid of cats that called for spring, let alone a long dark night.
Light the essential oil candle, the fragrance is overflowing, even if there is no electricity, it has a unique flavor. After eating fruits and drinking cold water, Yu Ju felt a bit cold. It was already late autumn. When she was about to find a blanket for her boyfriend, he wrapped his arms around him and coquettishly said, "Baby, I don't want a blanket, we can keep warm together
At this moment, he was already burning uncontrollably, and under the candlelight, his breathing gradually became thicker... Then he simply picked up Yu Ju, turned around, and Yu Ju chuckled. To Gang, this smile was like an invisible shot of stimulant. He forgot all the "rules" that Yu Ju had unilaterally set, and took the opportunity to fold over his girlfriend on the sofa. However, before Ju could fully react, he forcibly took control of her body
When Yu Ju woke up, she cried and then beat him, feeling regretful. But just like a child who had done something wrong, he couldn't turn back and stood by foolishly, which made Yu Ju feel pity and couldn't bear to continue punishing him. However, he still felt angry, unwilling, and afraid, which was extremely complex.
The sky finally lit up, I just admitted my mistake, and then went to the hospital to buy medicine and come back to "repair". Although Yu Ju recovered her composure, she always felt uncomfortable inside. Just like this, she lost herself in a confused and unprepared way, and her ideal equation of love development came to an end. A wisp of morning sorrow made her feel no need to dress up. Facing her reflection in the mirror, she asked herself, "Are you still waiting for 2008
The husband is bad because the wife is foolish!
Since she had already "given it to him", Yu Ju decided to get married as soon as possible a week later. She didn't want to carry any psychological burden and start dating. But is it fair to feel a faint pain in my heart again? My boyfriend's behavior is a violation of his dignity, but he knelt down and admitted his mistake, saying, "I can't help but love you
Yu Ju is very conflicted because she loves Gang very much, so she asked me out to talk about her worries. I said, if you think getting married can help you end these inner struggles, it's also a choice. But she still had a shadow in her heart, simply put, as if all of this was' forced ', not a natural state. I have nothing to say. Yu Ju is a serious girl, she reminds me of the four words' date rape '. In fact, many girls have experienced this kind of thing before marriage, but they have never considered it as a question to ponder or reflect on.
How much do you know about 'date rape'? What is the probability that a romantic date will evolve into a thrilling "date rape" without your warning? What is the IQ score of your date rape? Learn to say 'no' to 'date rape' in order to have safer and sweeter dating times.
It should be said that there are not too many sexual predators who specifically violate women, but more "boyfriends" forcibly occupy each other in the name of love, which often makes it easier to gain understanding from their girlfriends. Especially with the prevalence of online dating, there have been many cases where a girl who is full of expectations to meet netizens has been brutally attacked by a "wolf", which is known as "date rape". If a woman goes alone to a man's residence, car, or other secluded space, she may become a victim. It is worth noting that the occurrence of date rape is not limited to the first date.
So how can women in love improve their awareness of prevention?
Firstly, don't be greedy for small gains and eat others' soft talk. Light food romanticists are very taboo about spending their partner's money.
The second rule is to be intoxicated when taking a vow of love at the foot of the moon, but don't be confused and lose control. Please remember a new word: turn around magnificently. New women should be adept at 'gorgeous turns', rather than warmly catering or indulging in flattery. Only in this way, maintaining a certain distance and temperature, can love flow smoothly, plain but true. The most important thing is to be 'safe'!
