Post Date November, 17 2024
A boy said he really liked his girlfriend and she was very beautiful, but he still took the initiative to leave her. The reason for leaving her girlfriend is very simple, just because she has a bad habit of always procrastinating when she is around. Whenever they are in high spirits, the girlfriend slowly and orderly takes off her clothes, stacks them neatly, and then turns back to him. At this time, his interest has fallen to a low point. Over time, his feelings for his girlfriend faded.
The highest state of sexuality
The boy who posted this post believes that sex is the salt of love, love is like tasting soup. If there is salt in the soup, sex is perfect. If you drink soup and then eat salt, love is tasteless. There are also different opinions. Today, I saw a blogger on MSN saying that his girlfriend is actually very ordinary, not beautiful, and has no financial ability. However, he and she are very sexually harmonious, and their relationship is very good.
I asked him what his secret was, and he said, "It's very simple. Whenever I need it, no matter what she's doing, cooking, taking a shower, watching TV, sleeping or waking up, she's willing to cooperate, and the process is completed naturally and perfectly. I believe that this is the highest level of love and also the highest level of sex. This blogger (a young scholar from Hong Kong) said that the highest realm is the absence of deliberate foreplay, and everything happens naturally.
Foreplay is essential for sex
However, many of our sexologists and sexology textbooks have repeatedly told people that foreplay is an indispensable step in sexual activity. Without foreplay, sex becomes animalistic and not advanced sex. By comparison, I am confused: what is the highest level of sexual activity? Once upon a time, some articles wrote that the highest state of martial arts is to win without any moves, and the highest state of love is to love each other as if not in love. But when it comes to the highest realm of sexuality, it is indeed necessary to consider it. This seemingly simple but actually complex problem is something that everyone will experience, but not necessarily think about.
In fact, in the above two examples, there is a question of harmony, not the need for preludes. Some readers may be misled by harmonious sex and think that the previous process is not necessary. Perhaps, with some harmonious sex, the process is excited and rapid, appearing fast and forgetful, so there is no intention of feeling that the process is not a process. But if you want to deliberately complete this process, it will appear awkward and lengthy, and of course, it's not very interesting.
The prelude to sex can be long or short, depending on the individual. But whether one can reach the highest level ultimately depends on the degree of harmony. If we can achieve mutual integration and selflessness in our bodies, and to be honest, feeling comfortable for both of us is actually the highest level. The vibration massage stick can easily bring the highest enjoyment to both parties, and the clitoris is relaxed, which can be said to be the highest level of interpretive sex products. The techniques of foreplay may require everyone to learn and master more, which can at least double the quality of your work.
