There are many skills for couples to get along with each other. At the same time, they need to pay attention to some rules. In daily life, some women do not pay attention to the inner emotional world of men. They say what they want to say and scold what they want, which harms men invisibly. Here are four words that will make men sad. As women, try to avoid saying these words.
Why are you so useless!
Women care most about their emotional connection with others, while men care most about their ability. Women, especially married women, often complain about their husbands' incompetence. Such accusations of incompetence may be both career and life, but it is often this sentence that greatly hurts men's self-esteem. The embodiment of career success and ability is the most important part of a man's life. A man who is always sarcastic and sarcastic can only put him in a desperate situation. Every man has different abilities. Since women choose, they should face reality.
See who has bought a new house, car
This sentence will lead men to two conclusions. One conclusion is that he is useless and cannot meet his wife's requirements materially; One conclusion is that the wife is a snob, who loves money rather than love. In this way, the husband will not only be dissatisfied with himself, but also have enough reasons to be dissatisfied with his wife. If he talks too much about it, the husband will mistakenly think that his wife is telling him something, and the relationship between husband and wife will become more estranged.
Have the ability to dominate outside.
After a quarrel between husband and wife, the wife who is usually polite and polite to others will be abnormal. When quarreling, she will make a big noise and say this to her husband. It may be true that many husbands are cowardly and dare not be angry with others, but dare to be angry at home. But this is also the pain in their character. Wives should not deliberately poke their husbands' scars.
Who is she? What's your relationship?
If a man's mobile phone rings, his wife will automatically ask: "Who is it?" If the husband hesitates a little, then he will ask: "Who is she?" "What is your relationship?" Women have been suspicious since ancient times, which is understandable. They like to look at other people's mobile phones, especially their husband's mobile phones and bags, which is also conceivable. But the distrust between husband and wife that husband feels will greatly affect their intimate relationship.