Post Date December, 03 2023
The world is full of many uncertainties, which do not necessarily represent exceptions or additional results. Extramarital love also has this "uncertainty". If you have doubts about your marriage, or have a hundred times confidence in it, and see the "not necessarily" factors in extramarital love, you will also be secretly shocked.
Extramarital love is not necessarily a "bad person"
Many people believe that cheating is due to moral issues. However, many psychological research evidence shows that parents' behavior has a significant impact on their children's infidelity issues. If the child's parents have had an extramarital affair, it is likely that the child will experience similar problems with their parents as adults. Therefore, it is not necessary to define someone as a "bad person" just because they are cheating.
Extramarital love is not necessarily redeemable
Some avant-garde psychology books and magazines once claimed that extramarital love has a positive effect to some extent: making you a better lover, helping you overcome the midlife crisis, making your marriage happier, and even making you feel "excited" about your marriage again. This statement has a serious impact on people's thinking. "If every marriage that goes wrong is saved through infidelity, then the world will face many marital emotional problems, and a vicious circle of emotions will form.".
Extramarital love is not necessarily "harmless"
In some movies, extramarital love is often regarded as an indispensable plot, and it is often beautified. The implication of extramarital love in the film is similar to playing softball and watching movies, but it is only a leisure activity. Extramarital love can destroy the intimate relationship between partners, even destroy family and career, and leave a series of sequelae. Therefore, the harm caused by infidelity to marriage is significant.
Extramarital love does not necessarily require sexual relationships
Many people believe that if there is no sexual relationship, it cannot be called cheating. This understanding is inappropriate. From platonic friendship to romantic love, people always mistake themselves for not cheating. In fact, this is the biggest threat a marriage can face. 80% of infidelities begin with "a friend" and are often colleagues. Research has shown that 50% of women and 62% of men have adultery with their work partners in such matters. Therefore, spiritual infidelity will naturally develop into physical infidelity.
