Post Date November, 17 2024
Boys are often relatively simple, and it is easy to express whether they are interested in her or not, as the saying goes, 'nothing can be hidden.'. But many boys don't know whether some of her expressions are hidden in the possibility of love or just out of gentleness and elegance. Be good to me=like me, this is the way boys think. But in the psychology of girls, gentleness may only be commonly used as a small mask, and the true small signal of favoritism is often manifested in other places.
1. When talking to you, which direction is your body facing? No matter how she smiles and speaks fluently, to know if she has a good impression of you, please first look at her body orientation. When sitting, even if her upper body leans towards you, as long as her feet are facing in the opposite direction or folded up properly, it indicates that her heart has not yet given you. If speaking while standing, observe the distance between the two people. Generally speaking, an intimate distance is within fifty centimeters. But wait to draw a conclusion, and then look at her body language. Is it defensive? For example, is it holding an arm? If not, she has little vigilance towards you.
2. The expression when saying goodbye is about to break up. For example, when you have arrived at the station and walked away in two directions, did she turn around to see you two or three steps later? If she just goes away like this and doesn't look back, it means that you are just a simple friend relationship. (Relationship between superiors and subordinates, customer relationship, to be considered separately)
3. Don't lie with your eyes. First, ask her the simplest question: what you like to eat and what you don't like to eat. At this point, what you need to observe is her line of sight. There is a line of sight theory in NLP, which studies neural language. It holds that when people develop feelings of liking and disgust, the direction of their eyes is unconscious but specific. So, it's important to know her emotional baseline and remember the eye directions of "like" and "don't like". Next, ask a question in a natural way that connects her to you. For example, asking if she wants to go to a restaurant with you? At this point, observe the direction of her gaze again, is it "like" or "don't like"? You know if she really wants to date you. No matter how well she says it, if her gaze is not on the "like" side, I'm sorry, this may just be social etiquette.
4. SMS frequency: You are still in the exploratory stage. Try sending mood messages that are unrelated to work or business. If you reply immediately, it indicates that your intentions are towards each other; If you reply within two or three hours and add words like 'busy with work, I'm sorry I just saw it', you can still pursue it. On the contrary, I suggest you give up. If the other party is someone who doesn't like text messaging, let's not say otherwise. If she frequently communicates with you through text messages and likes to send photos, such as which store she is currently in, what interesting things she sees, etc., her good feelings are about to come out. Which characteristics of men and women are most likely to attract the likes and dislikes of the opposite sex are expressed through body language, rather than through words. Even if it's just a walk together, whether the other person has you in their heart or not depends on whether their pace and rhythm are in sync with you. Being attracted to a person of the opposite sex is sometimes just a fleeting moment.
So what are the characteristics of men and women that best attract the favor of the opposite sex? The famous British fashion magazine "Styling" summarizes some of the latest scientific research. Men like women with red lips. According to a survey conducted by the University of Manchester in the UK, when women wear lipstick, men's eyes stay on their lips, eyes and hair for 7 seconds, 0.95 seconds and 0.85 seconds respectively. Men like women with long arms. Researchers at the University of New South Wales in Sydney, Australia, found that men have no resistance to women with long arms, which means that women's legs are also relatively long. Men like women in red. British psychologists have found that red can quickly capture men's attention and evoke their fantasies.
Men like women who understand humor. A survey of men and women in their 20s conducted by the University of Western Ontario in Canada found that men prefer women who understand humor, while women prefer men who can express humor. Women are infatuated with deep voices. Research from the University of Aberdeen shows that men with deep voices are more likely to impress women. The low pitched voice reminds women of attractive factors such as good physique and masculinity. Women are infatuated with men who don't like to laugh. A study from the University of British Columbia in Canada suggests that men who enjoy a playful and cheerful demeanor do not have sexual appeal to women. Those with cold and dignified expressions are deeply favored by the opposite sex. Women are infatuated with men with scars on their bodies. The American magazine "Personality and Individual Differences" points out that small scars on the face can increase women's love for men, and small scars are often associated with words such as bravery, masculinity, and decisiveness.
