Post Date December, 02 2023
As you get married longer, do you realize that he doesn't hurt you as much as he did before? He often cannot "lift" in front of you. Is there a problem with your relationship? So you should take a good look at yourself. Is it a casual word or action that makes him "cold"?
1、 Be ridiculed for being timid and cowardly
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that heroes save beauty, but men all like beauty, so in the hearts of men, they all hope to be a hero admired by beauty. Unfortunately, we are a civilized society, so there are not so many beauties who need men to act as flower protectors with strong bodies. However, this does not mean that men will give up their heroic dreams. For men, ridiculing them for being cowardly is nothing more than insinuating that they are not enough men, which is an insult to them.
2、 Being criticized for their appearance
I always thought that only women care about their appearance, but men also care. Recently, a friend has made a girlfriend and has always felt that his standard figure is not strong enough to give his girlfriend enough sense of security. In fact, from his girlfriend's mouth, the man in her family is still a bit muscular, so men's lack of confidence in their appearance often comes from their psychological pressure. In fact, what women care about is not how tall, strong, and handsome this man is, but how sincere this man is to her. However, it is said that men care about other people's evaluation of their appearance because they are confident in their genes. Just like those short men who always want to find a tall woman, they hope to make up for their shortcomings by complementing each other. Therefore, if a woman is critical of a man's appearance, it will be understood by men as not valuing his genes.
3、 Praising another man in his face
Just as women do not want men to praise another woman in front of them, men also very much mind women praising another man in front of them, even if the man is a woman's relative or a man's friend. Men can't stand it. When a woman is with him, she desperately praises another man. This not only makes a man feel that you despise him, but also is a very retarded practice. Think about it. Most men love face, especially in front of their beloved women, and most of them want to be recognized by the other party. When you praise another man in front of him, you are just telling him that there is another man who is better than him. If this man is even recognized by him, imagine which man can tolerate it?
4、 Be exposed
"It's also a matter of face, but it also involves the issue of being a person. Imagine if a woman was exposed that you had a eyelid surgery on a certain day, time, and place, I think it would be very uncomfortable at that time, right?"? The so-called "hitting people without hitting their faces, cursing without exposing their shortcomings," and exposing their shortcomings are originally misdemeanors. Even the most intimate lovers should not easily step into this forbidden zone. As a wise woman, one should understand when silence is golden. Difficulty and confusion are always the highest realm in life. A straightforward person is always easy to offend others. A man's failure is like a scar, which only needs to be left to the man to slowly lick it well. What a woman should do is learn to make her memory worse.
5、 Open private life
I still remember a woman I used to know and always liked to tell her husband about things that happened between her and him. One day, after helping him wash his underwear, he was exposed to the sun on the balcony and was blown away by the wind. Today, I bought several cans of soda and rolls of toilet paper, and I had to ask his husband for reimbursement at night, even about his husband snoring at night. Everyone has two sides, and her husband is also considered a person of some social status, and many people support her in the past. In their own homes, all men will disarm and restore their true selves. At the moment, he is also defenseless, digging his nostrils and scratching his scalp. If a woman uses the secret between you and him as a source of conversation, for a man, it is tantamount to exposing his weak points and weaknesses to others. He will feel betrayed by others, and will be excluded from revealing his true side in front of you.
The above is one of my weaknesses that men are most reluctant to uncover, so when couples are together, they must trust, encourage, and support each other. Love and family need to be jointly maintained by two people!
