Post Date December, 02 2023
The Eight Wisdom of Managing Marriage
Rule 1: Choose a partner voluntarily.
The secret to finding true love depends on yourself, and it is a combination of inner love, rather than conformity to family pressure, relieving loneliness, the needs of economic life, and the inherent lifestyle of society.
Rule 2: Marriage cannot be concluded overnight, and marriage construction must also last a lifetime.
From love to marriage, there are stages such as "electric shock", exploration, evaluation, establishing intimate relationships, and mutual commitment. It is a process that requires patience, resources, and skills.
Rule 3: Both spouses should grow together.
Couples bring new knowledge to each other, help each other explore their potential, surpass themselves, and get along with others in a more mature mindset. Couples should have a sense of sharing, patience, gratitude, acceptance, and forgiveness.
Rule 4: Love yourself and constantly improve yourself.
The loveliness of yourself is what attracts your spouse. Believe in your own worth, respect your own desires and requirements, and be a complete person, not half of who you are. Only by constantly improving oneself to achieve the unity of external beauty and internal beauty can one maintain lasting attraction.
Rule 5: Learn to communicate and negotiate.
Without good communication, a relationship is like an empty boat carrying a frustrated journey full of confusion, speculation, and misunderstanding. Nothing is more painful than seeming apart. Communication enables the other party to understand your needs, desires, changes, and feelings. It is an important way for couples to maintain a smooth and active relationship with each other.
Rule 6: Careful care of emotions can lead to a harmonious relationship for a hundred years.
Cherish the person you love, cherish the person beside you. When an argument occurs, an active and sincere apology, an open self criticism, and a gesture of reconciliation can soften the anger of both parties, and even deepen mutual understanding and love by communicating and venting negative emotions
Rule 7: Constantly updating can last forever. Forever happiness is being able to maintain fresh and lively relationships.
"To constantly update your emotional relationship, maintain freshness and vitality. If a part is lost, you need to rebuild it. If it is damaged, you need to repair it.". It is necessary to constantly inject fresh vitality into your marriage in order for it to thrive.
Rule 8: When marriage faces challenges, face life together.
Both spouses should be interactive, harmonious, and mutually supportive. When a person is weak, another person should help him to be strong and tide over difficulties. Establish a life mechanism that allows your partner to share your successes and hardships.
