Post Date December, 02 2023
Input
For a woman, once she meets and is moved, it is like smoking opium. She always hopes to be intoxicated with it forever and feel its floating romance. She is not willing to get rid of it, nor can she get rid of it;
For men, when they meet the woman they love, it is like tasting a pot of high-quality wine. They know that only a little is the most charming. If they drink too much, they may suffer from drunkenness. So men are not as devoted to love as women.
Fall in love
Women will not easily fall in love with someone. That is because women's minds are always more delicate. When they meet people and things, they should always put them on the balance of their hearts to measure whether they have met their own requirements and goals. When the balance of the two ends of the balance, she may pay all her love.
Men are always more emotional than women, so men have more chances of falling in love at first sight than women. They just feel that love is love based on their momentary psychological feelings. They only want the beauty and happiness in front of them, and rarely think about what will happen in the future. They don't think deeply about those trivial matters. I don't know whether this is the reason why men are more likely to fall in love than women.
Fantasy
Women are always full of fantasy about love. They weave fairy tales in their fantasy castle for a long time. When the cruelty of reality shatters their dreams, the assertion that "love has no insurance period, and love is short-lived" also spreads from women's mouth.
Men's rationality makes them never want to create a love myth that is withered from the sea to the rocks. They know the truth that "good flowers do not always bloom, and good times do not always exist", so they can seize the most beautiful moment in front of them, and also feel very happy.
Demand
Women in love rely on men as pillows, as walls to block the wind and rain, and as children to love, men become women's dependence and sustenance. While men in love use women as quilts to cover, as gardens to stroll, and as mothers to claim, women become a warm haven for men.
Focus
Women in love tend to become "short-sighted". They only see their own love, only see their own one, and leave others out of sight. Men are not. Even if they love the women around them, they can still look left and right while holding you, and cast their eyes to the outside world.
Means
Women use their lives to manage love, and then use love to control men to manage men, while men use freedom to win back love, although the reins are held in women's hands
But they can never control love as easily as men, so sometimes women will inevitably wave a whip and yell at men in the hope of taming men. However, the more women let go of deliberate supervision, the more men will be intoxicated and unwilling to leave.
