Post Date December, 03 2023
The relationship between husband and wife seems to be unbreakable. In fact, it is also fragile. Some small winds and small waves may break up the sweet marriage. However, most couples have dangerous relationships in their lives, which directly lead to unhappiness in marriage or even "dissolution".
The relationship between master and servant in the life of husband and wife
There are many "fascists" in the couple's life, most of them men. These male chauvinists regard their wives as servants who "spend money and go there". They think that if they feed each other with money, the other party will have to live according to their assigned roles. Such arrogant and foolish ideas are contemptible. The wife is not a "tool" or a servant. She is the husband's favorite person. If you treat your wife as a housekeeper, why spend time with her?
Husband and wife should help each other, benefit each other, love each other and depend on each other. Their status is equal without class. Everyone has self-respect. When you abuse your wife wantonly, it is her tolerance to you, which does not mean that the other party agrees with this role. Until your behavior pierces the bottom line of your wife, there is no need to bear it anymore. The woman's counterattack will make the "slave owner" completely lose all "power".>> Make your wife the most beautiful woman
Status differences frustrate couples' feelings
The life of husband and wife needs to be treated equally, but the social status of both parties is not determined by this. Many couples have "strong men and weak women" or "strong women and weak men". Perhaps in their life, the difference in social status will not directly affect their feelings, but the gossip of outsiders or the work attitude of one party into the family can easily cause emotional discord. If the social status of the husband and wife is different, and they don't pay attention to their own words and deeds, they can't properly deal with the slander of the outside world. The harmonious relationship between husband and wife will still be affected.
The discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law destroys the couple's feelings
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a difficult problem that most couples have to face after marriage. In this complex relationship, there is no winner.
Because mothers-in-law have far more life experience than daughters-in-law, they always like to impose their own attitude and way of doing things on the younger generation. But in different times, everyone's living environment is different, and the way of thinking and doing things is even different. As a result, the thoughts of the daughter-in-law often collide with the mother-in-law, so there will often be friction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. At this time, the husband, as the middle man, often does not know how to deal with it. Some husbands who take filial piety as the criterion will put their mother first, do not ask about the cause, process and result of the matter, and blindly put the responsibility on their wife, and the feelings of the husband and wife will gradually fade, so that they will go their separate ways.
As the saying goes, the bell needs to be tied. The war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law makes men at a loss, but how to solve the problem of a good mother and daughter-in-law requires proper methods. Once it is not handled properly, it can easily lead to family disharmony and even the breakdown of marriage.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
