Post Date December, 03 2023
What does the Oedipus complex show? Many people can't understand the Oedipus complex, especially in the interaction between men and women, when women find their partners have Oedipus plot, they will be very mad. Then the following male health experts will tell you about the performance of the Oedipus complex.
The concrete manifestation of Oedipus complex
Freud had a famous view in his theory: he believed that the phenomenon of attachment to opposite sex parents during childhood is one of the common characteristics of humans. He believes that during the development of sexual psychology, children's sexual requirements should be met by close heterosexual parents, which is called "Electra complex" or "Oedipus complex". He borrowed the name of King Oedipus in ancient Greek mythology to name this phenomenon, also known as Oedipus complex. Due to the fact that children's emotions are not allowed by social ethics and morality, they are suppressed. The so-called "complex" refers to the unconscious consolidation of suppressed desires, which is a psychological damage. The solution is for children to transform the part of their development that is consistent with their parents into a superego, and under the control of the superego, to satisfy the requirements of moral norms. If this process is not smooth, people will become anxious and even develop into neurosis.
As for performance, in childhood, it is simply said to be clinging to the mother; As for adults, if they do not get rid of the Oedipus complex, their performance will be correspondingly complicated, such as the above-mentioned neurosis, as well as women who like to pursue much older than themselves. They lack assertiveness and independence in doing anything. If no one guides them or takes the lead in demonstrating, they will be timid, and even lack independent assertiveness and momentum in sexual life.
In fact, the emergence of Oedipus plot has a lot to do with a person's dependence on his mother in childhood. Especially in single parent families, boys who grow up with their mother are more likely to have Oedipus complex. Therefore, women should pay attention to understanding this aspect when men and women communicate.
