In love, two people often see each other as good, but after marriage, you will gradually realize that what you thought was good has changed its flavor. Although love is beautiful, don't blind your eyes, especially when facing the reality and utilitarianism of today's society. Many people use love to obtain what they want. Men should listen to what they say and observe what they do, otherwise there will be times when you cry in the future.
1. Dear, I will always remember our anniversary
Before marrying you, a man always tells you with sweet words that he will remember every anniversary that belongs to you. He may have done well before marriage, but will he still be like that in the years after marriage? However, when the anniversary arrived, he didn't remember it at all, didn't react at all, and even felt strange about your actions of preparing a table and dressing up, asking what day you valued it so much.
2. Let me think it over
You have been in a relationship for several years now. When family, relatives, and friends urged you to get married, he said it was a period of career advancement and asked you to give him some time to think carefully. You also gave him time, but this consideration has not been heard from for two years. A little time is a vague concept.
If you really just listen to him and keep waiting, then you probably won't give you any definite answer when your head turns white. A man who says he wants you to give him some time is likely telling you, 'You're done,' and he doesn't even have you in his heart.
3. I love cleanliness very much
Before getting married, most men will showcase their strengths to you, such as their love for cooking and washing clothes. The impression they give you is that they love cleanliness, and they also tell you that they are such a clean person. After getting married, his diligence had long disappeared without a trace. After getting married, you will find how disappointed you are.
4. I'll listen to you after marriage
Before getting married, men like to tell her that after getting married, I will listen to you. However, most men have male chauvinism in their bones, and they always want to have a place in this family. How can women occupy territory? What to eat, what to use, and what to wear after marriage can all be up to women, but when it comes to buying a car or a house, that's what men the final say.