The age of sexual development is generally early, and 80% of adolescents have unknown sources of sexual knowledge

Many parents have a headache about their children's sex education. Because I don't know how to convey scientific gender knowledge, sometimes the methods are incorrect, and sometimes children experience premature puberty or engage in sexual behavior earlier.

The conflict between precocious puberty and insufficient sexual knowledge

Mom has a stomachache, and the doctor took me out of my stomach. No, I slipped out of my stomach when my mother was urinating.

Will kissing between boys and girls lead to pregnancy? After waking up, I suddenly realized that there were milky white marks on my underwear. Isn't that strange We are not strange about these ignorant issues, but worried about them. The concern is that although the age of adolescent sexual development is advanced, there is a lack of knowledge about healthy sex.

Generally early age of sexual development

Yang Qin is not surprised by the phenomenon of precocious puberty in 5-year-old girls with enlarged breasts and 9-year-old boys who engage in masturbation due to sexual impulses.

A 9-year-old boy's mother must leave before going to bed at night. Once, when the mother entered the room, she found her son's face red, his forehead sweating, and his feet tightly clenched. The child was very thin and irritable, and the mother and son came to Director Yang Qin's office.

Originally, this child had foot pinching syndrome, which was a manifestation of sexual impulsivity, and the child masturbated. When her mother couldn't believe it, Yang Qin told her that the most important thing for parents is to eliminate their child's tension and anxiety, because the child subconsciously believes that this is a rogue behavior, and then cultivates good living habits for the child, telling him a certain amount of adolescent knowledge.

Due to various reasons such as nutrition and air pollution, the sexual development period of modern people is earlier than that of the previous generation. Demographic research shows that every 25 years since the 20th century, boys and girls have experienced one year earlier sexual maturity. According to the latest statistics, the average age of menarche for Chinese girls is 13.06 years old, one year earlier than in the 1960s. The average age at which Chinese boys first ejaculate is 14.02 years old, two years earlier than the 1960s.

80% of sexual knowledge sources are unknown

What is adolescence, how to protect oneself, what impact masturbation has on people, menstruation has arrived, how to reflect male physical education teachers, and other issues are all raised by girls, and they have a lot of confusion. But the survey results show that the priority target for girls to acquire sexual knowledge is their peers, not their mothers. A girl wrote on the questionnaire: "Mom doesn't talk to me, and I'm also very shy.