In today's era of low income and high inflation, where life and work pressures are becoming heavier and heavier, although men know that they are shouldering the heavy responsibility of inheriting their families, they can touch their increasingly withered pockets, look up at the soaring house prices, and look around at the girls who are not married to landless families. Many boys feel that life is out of time, and the cost of love is so expensive that more and more boys cannot afford it, I can only regard the idea of marrying you as a hidden ideal.
1. Even if he is busy with his work, he will find ways to spend time with you.
A man in love always wants to spend holidays with you. For this reason, he may refuse to accept invitations from friends and arrange games and play time, or give up the opportunity to reunite with his family, just to be with you and to see you at all times.
2. I always want to introduce you to his social circle friends and even family.
If you are invited to a very important social event with him, it means that he is willing to bring you into his social circle, hoping to hear someone praise him for his vision, and also hoping to hear praise from you, if you find him becoming particularly happy and excited.
3. When shopping, he always buys you something you don't like.
A man who never buys anything suddenly buys you a gift when he comes back from a business trip. Although this gift is not what you like and the clothes you buy are not your favorite style of dressing, it can at least reveal that he really likes you in his inner world.
4. He has been invited many times to attend the wedding ceremony of his best friend in his circle.
"Attending the wedding of your best friend is not a chance for any girl. If you are invited to attend as his girlfriend on such a grand social occasion, it means that he wants to share his hope with you, hoping that you can understand the profound meaning of" The next couple will get married, it seems that it's us ".".
5. The first thing that comes to mind when you're alone is to let you spend time with him.
When a person is resting, whether on a trip or looking for someone to chat with, they always choose to be with you first. In fact, it is the common experience they create through subconscious cultivation and being with you, imprinted with new habits and memories, which indicates that they sincerely hope that you can live together.
6. Ambiguous words such as "we" and "our family" often appear.
When two people are together, if he often blurts out how we are, or how our children are, it indicates that he has already regarded you as the object of marriage, because usually boys do not mention the word "child" or "home" in front of strange women.
7. In front of you, there is always a sense of responsibility unique to the flower protector.
Most men don't have the urge to be a flower protector until they meet the right woman. Only when they meet the girl they love or the girl they want to marry will they have the urge to guard their love from being violated. At this time, a man already regards you as his woman.
8. Going shopping with you has become very willing to spend money for you.
Although it is generally accepted that going out with a familiar boy should be paid for by the boy, there is very little that can really be done. "Only when a boy is with a girl he likes can this seemingly insignificant behavior become natural, because he expects you to be the protagonist of the marriage.".
9. In front of you, I will cry like a child without any worries.
"No matter what occasion, if he can shed tears in front of you without scruples, it means that he can be vulnerable in front of you and truly express himself in front of you without hiding the embarrassment of crying. It also means that he has already regarded you as the person willing to accompany him through the storms.".
10. Discuss in front of you whether a promotion or a bank account is sufficient.
Men are usually reluctant to calculate whether money is enough to spend in front of women, or talk about life topics such as housing prices that make their lives heavy. If a boy is willing to discuss promotions and salary increases with you, or suddenly cares about whether the money in his bank is sufficient, it indicates that he has started to plan for married life.
In fact, a man's reluctance to talk about sensitive topics such as "marriage" and "responsibility" when he is unable to do so does not mean that a boy no longer loves a very material girl. Even if a man has a desire to marry you, he will neither and does not want to talk about the girl he loves and likes, even if a woman is chasing him all day, Especially when he is not sure that he can provide you with comfortable living conditions and comfortable living environment, men rarely show it clearly.
Editor's Note: Therefore, a smart girl does not need to stare at the boy every day and ask if she is willing to marry herself. Instead, she carefully observes. If she finds that the boy suddenly becomes very responsible and cares about you very much, then you won't have to say that your heart is in tune with him.