According to the survey, many of these men and women, especially those engaged in intellectual (or mental) work, have had a pleasant sexual life but unexpectedly fell into the dilemma of sexual fatigue and depression. I am young and in good health, but I have no sexual interest. Nowadays, more and more modern urban couples are experiencing such new troubles in their sexual life, which experts refer to as sexual fatigue.
In order to get rid of the dilemma of sexual life,
There is no standard for the frequency of sexual intercourse.
The position of sexual activity must be corrected. For some couples, having sex once a month is effective, and both parties are satisfied. Some people may have sex five times a week to be satisfied. This is an individual difference, and we cannot force uniformity. As long as both parties meet honestly, understand and express their emotions, they will coordinate and not doubt each other. Otherwise, a vicious cycle will form.
NO.2: Conduct in a planned manner.
Making love also requires planning, only in this way can couples cooperate harmoniously. In fact, the decisive life plan for the two is also an emotional enjoyment. For example, a man complained that she usually likes to have sex later, but I didn't have the energy at the time. When the time was not right, they didn't like each other. It can be seen that planning is important.
NO.3: Emotional contact is not necessarily sexual behavior.
It is wrong for men to believe that sexual contact must include sexual intercourse. Sexual life includes many aspects, and it may not always be accompanied by the excitement of sexual intercourse. The most clear fact for women is that having a kind of consideration is enough. That is to say, when she actively embraces you, she may not necessarily demand that you be genuine; She may just want to find a warm feeling.
NO.4: Play with romantic patterns.
When two people are together, they can light candles for dinner, or cover their feet with blankets, watch the moon on the balcony, chat, and warm the tenderness of their first love. Nowadays, many couples are very popular in their sexual activity, which means they sometimes go to a hotel for the night. Enjoying sexual life in a casual way, with a particularly relaxed mood, reduces stress, and enhances intimacy between the two. There is no fixed way of love, and so is sexual life.