Post Date December, 02 2023
Everything, at its highest stage, is better than having an ordinary heart, and love is also the same. The sages of ancient China once said "too much is too late", and there is also a saying in idioms that "the way of literature and martial arts is to relax and relax". In fact, what they say is the same truth. Only by relaxing and relaxing can we maintain a stable mindset and do some important things well.
But people in love often find it most difficult to grasp the balance between tension and relaxation. Many people who love each other ultimately have to part because they are lost in an atmosphere that is either too tense or too relaxed.
Love makes those immersed in it go from meticulous to tense, paying attention to each other's words, actions, and eyes, as if all of them are related to love. The truth of the matter is often that one thinks too much, and Zhang has more than enough to relax, causing many beautiful love experiences to slowly disappear in tension.
Another situation is exactly the opposite, where two people get along relaxed like a pair of passersby; When we parted, there were also few anxious thoughts and anxieties waiting for a reunion, everything was as plain as water. Having more than enough chi but not enough tension creates confusion about whether love is friendship or love, and reduces the sense of mutual tension that men and women should have.
Love is such a thing between relaxation and relaxation. The charm of love is that it varies from person to person, from event to event, and from person to person. Like that gymnastics champion, always have a calm heart, knowing to give love a little relaxation when it's most tense and a little tension when it's most relaxed. Perhaps your love inadvertently received full applause and perfect perfect marks from the audience.
