Post Date December, 03 2023
"There are more and more stories about women chasing men, and there are some very vivid expressions, such as: Women chasing men through the veil, women chasing men are sailing against the current, and if you don't advance, you will retreat.". No matter how the world evaluates it, for a girl, this is a practical act of brave pursuit of love. For a boy, it can even prove his own charm. He will feel happy about it and enjoy the feeling of being chased and loved by others.
In the ranks of women chasing men, it is inevitable that there are some girls who are impatient, overexerted, and unable to endure the painful waiting process. They are obsessed with cutting the chaos quickly and lack patience; Some girls' pace is too slow, and when they chase after each other, they lag behind most of the boys. The two are not in the same rhythm, without contact and collision, how can they create a spark of love; Even more girls, having eaten the weight of the scales and hardened their hearts, throw themselves out. In order to gain the other party, they engage in such behaviors as pestering, compromising, threatening with death, confessing themselves, etc., making boys afraid at the sight of them, or treating them like disposable bowls and chopsticks, and throwing them away when used up.
Now that you have chosen the distance, you must be prepared for both trials and hardships. It is not easy for women to pursue men. Girls need to have wisdom to pursue men, especially to pay attention to some taboos. They should not act like headless flies and recklessly bump into each other. When dealing with boys, they should grasp a certain degree, and girls themselves should have principles and a bottom line. In this way, they can stand at the same height with their beloved ones, appreciate each other, and embrace each other with a better image. Specifically, there are several points worth noting when girls chase boys:
1. Avoid non mainstream images. There is no denying that some boys are fond of non mainstream girls, but from the general trend, boys still tend to have a good image of a lady, with gentle and considerate, open and generous, and rich in wisdom. In reality, few boys will be with silly and crazy girls, and boys largely hope that their girlfriend can become a classic business card of their own. Of course, there are many such phenomena in movies and TV dramas. Therefore, girls must cultivate a good self-image, pay attention to the image of girls who tend to be male, and purposefully create themselves.
2. Don't overdo it. First of all, girls should not have too strong an aura to mask the brilliance of boys. For example, some girls rush to pay for a party with a boy or keep giving him various things, which makes him feel embarrassed. Secondly, girls' aura should not be too weak. Most female students tend to have a cautious mentality when pursuing male students, constantly worrying about whether this can be accomplished, and paying close attention to the other party's views, often becoming submissive and lacking their own views and positions. Finally, girls who express their hearts through death make boys even more miserable. Boys will have a desire to conquer, and girls' threat of death either causes him to submit to submission or causes him extreme resentment. In any case, this result is not ideal.
3. Don't give up your body easily. It is better for women to pursue men step by step. Don't rush to give yourself up, thinking that this way you can tie and win the hearts of men. Everyone is a complex of contradictions. The easier it is to obtain something, the more likely it is to feel bored and not appreciate it. A boy wants to occupy the body of a girl in his heart, but he hates girls who have too casual relationships with them, and inevitably thinks that such girls seem cheap. Most girls are sentimental, and they also have a persistent attitude towards love. Even so, what should be adhered to is still to hold on, making boys feel that you are precious.
4. Not too sticky and wordy. "Women chasing men can't stick to each other like glue, avoiding the constant bombardment of text messages, phone calls, and social chats. Boys have their own careers and pursuits.". After all, the patterns of women chasing men and men chasing women are different, and attention should be paid to the enterprising way.
