Synchronize family sex education and emotional education to prevent children from losing heterosexual education

My husband and I believe that sex education for our children is natural. We should not talk about changes in sexual expression like our parents do, or make vague signs with various patterns. Instead, it can make us curious and questioning about sex when we are young, and we should not speak for the sake of speaking. This is a serious issue. Our sex education for our children should permeate every aspect of their growth.

My son started kindergarten at the age of 2 and a half. Shortly after, he came home and asked, 'Why is our boy standing and urinating while the girl is squatting?'? There was a boy in our class who was lying on the ground today watching a girl urinate and was scolded by the teacher! My son is very slow, and the teacher scolded that child in public, which must have caught his attention. The girl doesn't have a chicken, squat down, and the boy and girl are distinguished like this. And this is a secret place for boys and girls, you cannot let others see it, nor can you go to see it.

One day when my son was 4 years old, he accidentally encountered something hard in his mother's stomach. What did he ask? I showed him some scars and told him that he came out from here. Unexpectedly, he cried all night, He said that my mother must be very painful, and I said, "Yes, my parents have overcome many difficulties for you (I have difficulty giving birth) ! So be a good child! Be good to your parents when you grow up! You are a tadpole that my father gave to my mother. You grew up in my mother's belly, but my mother's belly couldn't grow anymore. While undergoing surgery in the hospital, I also read several diaries I kept for him during his pregnancy and showed him all the photos after birth. In order for him to have a sensitive understanding, our family went to the Nature Museum that weekend to show him how people were born. Perhaps because it was too small, he didn't feel much about specimens of different sizes in the bottle. We don't know how much he is interested in things themselves, it seems like it's just a natural process, but his feelings for his parents are deeper and more obedient.

One day in the third grade of elementary school, my son told me that the girls in the class often talked about TV celebrities, who they liked, who they loved, and who the people in the class were paired with. Do you have any female classmates you like? Do you want to be alone with her? He said, 'No, sir.'. I love my mom the most! I like it, intentionally saying: "One day a girl is better than her mother, but if her mother likes it, she can tell her

In sixth grade, one day, he told me that he found a package of things on the ground today, and the girl at his desk snatched it over, even calling him annoying! He said, "Mom, I didn't see what it was, it seems like there's a 'sanitary napkin' The words. What is it for? Why did she scold me? This is for girls. When girls are this old, they bleed every month. It's a girl's secret to use this, so I don't want boys to know. Boys will soon have their own secrets. For example, you may change your voice, grow a beard, have a long throat... because girls bleed, cherish girls and do not harm them.