Post Date November, 17 2024
Mencius said, 'Food and sex are also important.'. Everyone has sexual instinct, which includes three elements: hormone, emotion and sexual fantasy, in other words, body, heart and heart. People of any age need good feelings, proper sexual fantasy, normal sex hormones and harmonious sex. However, when young, there is a strong secretion of hormones and a lack of emotional support
Sexual impulses are insufficient to sustain sexual activity
Gender life, the feelings between men and women can be divided into four periods (The Honeymooners period or early marriage), conflict period (mutual adaptation period), transfer period (childcare period) and depth period (return to the world of two people). If normal sex hormones are the cornerstone of a harmonious relationship, then good emotions are the fusion agent, and appropriate sexual fantasy is the catalyst.
Generally, young people have normal sex hormones and rich sexual fantasy, but physical and imaginative impulses tend to dilute emotional factors. In real life, it is not uncommon for college students who break up as soon as they graduate and young couples who divorce as soon as their honeymoon ends. This is the reason. Dealing with poor emotional relationships, simple physical impulses are not enough to maintain good sex.
Therefore, young people should respect, understand, tolerate, and adapt to each other, especially accepting all the strengths and weaknesses of each other, and using emotional fusion agents to make the newly established gender relationship stronger.
Emotional transfer leads to a lack of motivation in sexual activity
The situation of middle-aged people is different from that of young people. They spend most of their time raising children and working, and their emotions are in a transitional period, calm but lacking intense invitations. At the same time, approaching menopause can lead to a gradual decrease in sexual hormone levels. The body and mind gradually move away from sweetness, and it is dangerous not to change this situation.
For middle-aged people, the best way is to appropriately increase sexual fantasy. That is to say, in a calm and sleeping state, self stimulation through thinking activities is a self engaging sexual behavior.
The content of sexual fantasy is really full of pornographic colors, which can be produced by yourself, masturbation and time production. A consulting expert in the United States provides an example of a middle-aged man who has always been satisfied with his sexual life. For many years, he has fantasized about his wife as plump and delicate as she was when she was young, and the two constantly change the time and location of sexual intercourse. The bedroom, kitchen, and bathroom all leave memories of their sexual experiences, gradually eliminating the boredom between the couple.
