Suspected Wife's Misconduct Express Bomb to a Third Party: Men's Excessive Behavior Due to Insecurity

A man from Cangnan, Wenzhou, suspected that his wife had an improper relationship with his junior high school classmate and sent him a package containing a homemade improvised bomb. A man suspects his wife of cheating, either pretending to be deaf and mute, or simply being rough. The second generation of wealthy people in Nanjing suspected their wives of infidelity, caught in a hotel, and ultimately killed their wives in a fit of rage; These are all sad stories, with a heavy sense of suspicion and fear of wearing a green hat. Ultimately, it all stems from the lack of confidence in oneself.

Hegemonism

Men all have their domineering side, no matter how indifferent they may seem on the surface. Not only are women jealous, but men also have a sense of monopoly over their wives' possessions. Just like the nature of small animals to protect their food and the dominant consciousness of male animals in their own fields, their wives are taken into their possession by him and are not allowed to be coveted by other male animals. With the development of human society to this day, the hegemony in men's bones is buried under the checks and balances of the law. In ancient times, whether it was an emperor or a wealthy family, men regarded women who had had had a relationship with them as their own property. Even if that woman was forgotten in a blink of an eye after just one night of romance, he could not allow her to be left alone. The harshness towards red apricot women in ancient times was also influenced by the idea of men. Nowadays, the law stipulates that if a husband is monogamous, his wife will naturally value him more. He cannot tolerate her stirring things up behind his back. If there is an incident where his wife's red apricot leaves the wall, it will be the greatest physical and mental damage to him.

Desire for control

A man has a strong desire for control, with grooves in his chest, and everything is under his own control, which makes him feel at ease. The unknown always makes people afraid. Men also treat their partners the same way, hoping that their partners are under their control so that they don't have to worry about losing them. Therefore, if his wife exceeds his control, he will become suspicious and see every trace of his wife's infidelity. Just like the wealthy second generation in Nanjing, the act of chasing after the wind and shadows was taken seriously, ultimately leading to the tragedy of killing a wife and feeling regretful. China's patriarchal society has been going on for thousands of years, with generations of subtle influences. It is not surprising that men have a strong desire for control. It is human nature that only by holding something in the palm of one's hand can one feel at ease.

A sense of instability

Men have a sense of instability in their bones, which makes them sensitive and suspicious. Men are far more sensitive to their wives' affairs than their wives, only pretending to be deaf and mute as if nothing had happened would make their wives think they are dull. Men's inner insecurity prevents them from giving too much trust. Now experts have proven that men's trust in women is much lower than women's trust in men, although most of them are now men who cheat. Men go out for socializing all night long, and as long as they go home and talk about things, their wives won't ask too much. However, when their wives are playing or staying up all night, their husbands will ask about the details one by one, sometimes repeatedly confirming to reassure themselves. If a man whom she greatly admires appears in their wife's mouth, they will also be jealous and say a few sour words. If a wife dresses up beautifully one day but it's not because of herself, even if she says she's shopping with her best friend, she may feel guilty. In short, the insecurity in men's bones can make them lack trust in their wives, always feeling that their wives are always ready to climb the wall. Although it may be exaggerated to say so, if the wife is already abnormal, they will be so suspicious.

Lack of confidence

If a man is not confident that a woman can accompany him for a lifetime, he will look at his wife with colored glasses, and the slightest hint of trouble will lead to suspicion of a criminal. Therefore, men tend to harbor a sense of hostility towards their wives' best friends and male friends, especially those whose wives often speak up or appreciate them. Although they may not say anything, they will definitely put the other person on the "blacklist" in their hearts, and when they suspect that their wives are cheating, they will quickly pull out the names of third parties from the blacklist.

Suspicion is a disease that needs to be treated. Although men are more or less sensitive to this, casually doubting their wives can harm the feelings of both spouses. There is a news report that both husband and wife gave birth to a single eyelid child with double eyelids. The husband suspected that his wife had given birth to someone else, and his wife conducted a DNA test to prove his innocence. The man was overjoyed and prepared to live a good life with his wife, but his wife handed him a divorce agreement. Trust is the foundation of marital bond. Without trust, how can couples cross a century together? Therefore, if you feel that your wife's behavior is abnormal, it is best to communicate to avoid your own doubts damaging the relationship between the couple.