Post Date December, 03 2023
"We often hear people who already have a partner, during quarrels and cold wars, talk about how they were blind and had a crush on someone like this.". However, at this moment, if someone suggests that he give up this relationship, he will become hesitant and more often refer to the words "reluctant to part". In fact, in the short period of youth, there is no extra time to let oneself waste. People always think that two people have been together for a long time, and if they are looking for another partner, they need to explore and understand again, which will waste more time. It is better to continue to choose to stick to it. In fact, sometimes, abandoning inappropriate emotions can make you happier.
Break up, sometimes responsible to both parties
Each person's growth environment is different, their experiences in the process of growth are different, the people they come into contact with are different, the circle of friends is different, the education level they receive is different, and many other factors contribute to each person's personality, ability, temperament, and personality. As we all know, there are only similar things in the world, and there are no identical examples. It's really not easy to find a suitable partner. When you perceive that there is a significant distance between two people in certain aspects, it is important to start thinking about the future path. True love should not be based on the psychology of accommodating each other all the time, but rather a kind of complementarity, the courage of two people to face and accomplish together. As the saying goes, "Different ways do not conspire against each other." Human behavior is governed by their own consciousness and is the external form of inner activity. "If the goals of each other are not in the same direction, it can lead to the inability of two people to make progress together, which can easily lead to emotional deviation in the future.". After all, differences in what two people want ultimately lead to differences in their behavior. Therefore, sometimes breaking up is a responsible attitude towards both parties and a decision not to delay their future.
Breaking up is sometimes a form of self protection
As two people spend more and more time together, it is inevitable that some shortcomings will be exposed. Different people have different ideas for the same shortcomings, and their ability to accept them naturally varies. Once these issues lead to endless quarrels, even concealment, deception, and betrayal, they inevitably lead to mutual harm. Although love is sweet, sometimes it is like two enemies. You hurt me once, and then I pay you back. It escalates step by step, and finally counts the scars left on each other. Everyone grows through experience and slowly learns the ability to survive through experience. "A person who continues to be in an environment that hurts him or her will in the long run affect his or her three values, and even completely lose confidence in love.". Therefore, when the conflict reaches an irreconcilable level, breaking up becomes a form of self-protection.
Breaking up sometimes means taking a long vacation for your heart
True love is when two people can experience psychological pleasure together. When you love someone until they are physically and mentally exhausted, it indicates that you have given more or suffered more in some aspect. So at this moment, we need to stop and review every detail of this relationship. Some people are too much controlled by their partners, and their space is blindly compressed without any freedom; Some people spoil their partners, completely altruistic, blindly giving themselves, but the other person remains indifferent; Some people confuse the difference between possession and possession. Although the other person is willing to be with themselves, they never consider their own feelings. When love becomes a shackle of the soul, it becomes a deformed love that achieves the happiness of one person at the expense of another. Such feelings cannot be called love. In this high-pressure environment, breaking up is a relief for one's soul. Taking a long vacation for one's heart can feel like a relief.
Breaking up is not difficult to say. The reluctance, dependence, sadness, and gloom in love give many couples an illusion: this is love. In fact, what is true love? It is the courage of two people to walk together, and the determination of two people to support each other and be able to walk through life. When you feel that you have no intention of managing love anymore, letting go becomes a reasonable choice. Sometimes, giving up can make you happier.
