Post Date December, 03 2023
Nowadays, more and more women are entering the ranks of single leftover women, who yearn for marriage and someone who can know the cold and the hot. However, unfortunately, everything is not as expected and we always cannot achieve our goals. So, how can we get rid of being single and marry a good man? Now, let's listen to what people have said.
1. I can't get married
When a woman reaches a certain age, she will want to get married. No one sends flowers during holidays, no one speaks when they return home, and the pressure exerted by relatives, friends, and society is so great that they often feel very anxious. However, I have considered a lot in this anxiety, but have overlooked my inner thoughts. I have also experienced this process. I started thinking about getting married at the age of 25, and only got married at the age of 30. In the first few years, I thought about a lot of messy things all by myself, and I was worried about this and that, which was not making me comfortable.
But later on, I realized that all I focused on was what kind of person the other person was, but not on myself. Only by knowing who you are can you know what kind of person you need. To leave that anxious and chaotic period, one must open oneself up, constantly explore oneself, and listen to one's own voice.
2. How to attract the right person with flashing lights
We are always searching hard, but such results always prevent us from achieving what we want. Women sometimes love someone because of their own scarcity. When you don't have money, you just want to find someone with money; When you don't have a house, you hope the other party has a house... In short, if you don't have one, you hope the other party can have it. You think the other party has it, and from then on, you also have it, but it's not always the case. Instead of working hard to find, it's better to attract the people you want.
The premise of attraction is to make yourself shine, you have to like the world, like yourself, live a happy life, and have the ability to be happy. Only when you are happy can others feel happy. At this point, your state is open, and expectations for your partner are just icing on the cake, making your life more complete, rather than having to provide timely assistance to make up for important deficiencies in your life.
