Post Date December, 03 2023
Couples are bored, and marriage can also be disharmonious. Discord in marital relationships has become a common phenomenon among people in their 30s and 40s. As time passed unconsciously, the affectionate enthusiasm of the two people when they first got married gradually replaced by indifference and indifference. But does this indicate that you are really in a relationship crisis? To make a correct judgment, first take a look at the following 6 signs in your life:
No more sweet words
As we all know, it is easier to get along with a husband and wife by sweetly speaking to her, adding some teasing and teasing ingredients, and sparing no time to compliment her. The way you speak to your spouse is one of the factors that make up a harmonious relationship between husband and wife. There are many ways to express a meaning, depending on how you say it. "If you're no longer interested in sweet talking to your partner, it's a bad signal.".
Enthusiastic in social activities
Both people are busy attending various dances or gatherings between friends to avoid intimate contact between them. When two people are alone at home, they always leave the TV on and don't want to talk much.
The clothes you wore on your first date no longer fit
A study in the United States revealed that among 2500 women interviewed who were reputed to have a disharmonious and unhappy relationship, the average person gained 54 pounds in the 10 years after marriage. Psychologist Richard, who conducted the study, analyzed and said, "For some women, weight gain can increase their dominance and sense of achievement in the family, while for others, it can protect themselves from unnecessary sexual harassment. Of course, husbands will also have a significant decrease in their interest in it."
Ashamed to put a group photo of two people on the table
"There are no group photos of you in the room, and even if there are, they are littered with dust in the debris pile under the bed.". At this point, you need to reflect.
Are you quietly waiting for the day to leave
"Sometimes I want to leave him. But I never dare to think much, because I don't know what others will think of me, which makes me feel very embarrassed. I have to blame myself for being paranoid and not paying attention to him." If you often have such thoughts, your marriage is very dangerous.
Unwilling to spend long holidays with a partner
Vacation together at a tourist resort is an enviable beauty. "But if you choose only a short vacation, it means you don't have the intention to stay with your partner for too long, and sometimes it can be a sign of a rift in your relationship.".
"This is the worst sign," said Miss Li, "Couples who quarrel all day are more likely to live together than couples who are feeling stuffy in their stomachs. An argument at least shows that you still have enthusiasm and the courage to communicate sincerely. And that kind of lazy and indifferent silence is the biggest sign of divorce. There are two types of arguments between couples: one is anger, anger subsides, and everything is peaceful; the other is insipid, and at this point, the situation is irreversible.
