Post Date December, 03 2023
1、 Let the body 'express' your thoughts.
Experience has shown that 'body language' can often convey more information and express richer emotions to the other party. Therefore, if your verbal expression ability is mediocre, please remember that on your first date, what you say hardly cultivates any surprising results.
According to researchers' calculations, on the first date, 55% of the first influence you leave on the other person depends on appearance and "body language", 38% depends on speaking skills, and only 7% depends on the content of your speech.
This means that with the help of some simple psychological methods (even if the conversation only involves the weather), you may win the other person's love. For this, your body must be able to convey some implicit positive signals to the other party. The first thing to note is: never stand in front of the other person with your arms crossed; Secondly, imitating the other person's posture helps to create a sense of closeness.
In addition, it is best to adopt some methods that can showcase your mature temperament or gentle charm, such as inserting your hand into your pants pocket to showcase your chest. If a method can be found to align the actions of both parties, such as drinking the same drink, it can also achieve good results.
2、 Jointly experiencing fear
Nothing can bring two people together more easily than an extreme situation. A tense situation may cause a significant turnaround in your life. Research has shown that if a person is in a very excited state when meeting others, it greatly increases their chances of obtaining a romantic feeling.
This is because there is a close connection between panic, excitement, and admiration. In an experiment called the "Swing Bridge" conducted in the 1970s, psychologists Abdul Aron and Dan Daton found that if a man met a woman on a constantly shaking bridge, he would find the other person more sexy and romantic - to a significantly higher extent than when dating a woman on a low and stable bridge.
Of course, this does not mean that the location of the first date must be arranged under some very extreme conditions. In fact, in the relatively stable and stable era we are currently in, an experience in an amusement park may significantly increase the levels of adrenaline in our bodies.
Research has shown that, equivalent to watching mundane films, couples are more likely to ignite mutual admiration after watching a film filled with suspense or tension together. As for the reason behind it, no one has yet been able to explain it clearly. Perhaps the increase in adrenaline concentration caused by fear played a crucial role.
However, there is a small exception here: although a tense environment may make those who are already very cute appear more likable, it also makes those who are not cute appear more annoying.
3、 Laugh together
Love and laughter always go hand in hand. Among the factors traditionally believed to create love between men and women, a sense of humor always occupies a very important position. Sharing laughter together creates a sense of closeness between strangers.
American psychologists Abdul Aron and Dan Datong conducted a very classic experiment. They have two strangers who do not know each other engage in some game like activities, such as learning to dance. During this period, they blindfolded one party and had the other party hold a straw (to prevent them from speaking freely). Although the sounds made by these two people may seem foolish, it has been proven that love does indeed appear with laughter.
Of course, we cannot cover the woman's eyes on our first date, but trying to tell some jokes is completely achievable.
4、 Choose suitable accompaniment music
Overall, those musicians who play avant-garde jazz may be the most unfortunate group in the world. Research by American psychologists shows that soft and simple music is most conducive to emotional development.
Experiments have shown that soft music is more likely to make women feel favorably towards men, while jazz or completely silent environments may have the opposite effect. At the same time, it is important to avoid attending more serious concerts on your first date.
5、 Using the 'Love Almighty'
Although someone has been trying to create a magical drug that can enhance mutual affection for a long time, so far it has not been successful.
Animal experiments have shown that injection of pituitrin can induce a strong dependence of male mice on female mice. Some illegal drugs such as cocaine can also create a sense of pleasure and increase dopamine levels in the body. However, taking drugs for the sake of love should be completely avoided. Researchers have introduced that physical exercise can also increase the concentration of dopamine in the blood.
In addition, the human body can also synthesize a substance called phenylethylamine (commonly known as "love molecule"), which can also make people excited and experience an inexplicable sense of happiness. It is reported that chocolate also contains abundant phenylethylamine.
6、 Look into the other person's eyes
Any woman with all kinds of charm knows that eyes are a very effective means of expressing emotions. Psychologists' research has also proven that eyes are indeed a very powerful weapon. Experiments have confirmed that when two strangers sit opposite each other, looking into each other's eyes is much more likely to create a sense of closeness than looking at other parts of their bodies.
However, to the surprise of scientists, two strangers who were tested even prepared to get married immediately after the experiment ended! Psychologists believe that there is nothing magical about this: when we gaze at someone, the brain regions related to receiving reward information are stimulated, resulting in a favorable impression of the other person.
The main conclusion drawn from this is that visual connections can breed some kind of miracle, but necessary safety techniques must also be followed - if the other party does not respond to your gaze, your pursuit behavior may face the risk of being criticized.
