Post Date December, 02 2023
It is normal for couples to get along with each other. But some words can't be said. Once they are said, nothing will happen, and small things will become big things, until two people fire, and the quarrel can't be opened. Today, the editor will make an inventory. In the process of getting along with a husband and wife, those words are forbidden to be said. Otherwise, it is easy to cause the husband and wife to open fire.
Don't overestimate your own measurement. After the two people quarreled the first night, it is impossible to forget everything when they woke up the next morning. In fact, the fuse of a quarrel between husband and wife is usually a trivial matter. In order to prevent the fire and the inexplicable war, we should be careful of the "six words that are most likely to make couples quarrel". Sisters, take your husband to study hard, and you can avoid the "mines" buried in your life.
You never cared about my feelings
When a man hears his wife say this, he will be very mad. He will not carefully consider the exaggeration used by the woman when saying this sentence. He will directly understand that his wife is denying everything he has done in the past. In fact, my wife put such a harsh sentence in her heart and said, "Honey, I'm not happy now, I need you to understand my feelings, and you'd better comfort me. If you want him to pay attention to you, there is no need to be coquettish.
This dish is really bad or too salty
This is usually a common disease of men. They only care about their own feelings, but never consider that this is the result of their wife's hard work in the kitchen for a long time. The man's words are like a basin of ice water. It's cool! It's strange that the wife doesn't collapse. Men have the dignity of men, and women have the face of women. Women are also better at imagining and exaggerating problems. When the husband says that the food made by his wife is not delicious, she will think that "you are either dissatisfied with me or think I am not virtuous enough". In case of this situation in the future, my husband must exercise his acting skills. It's not difficult to squeeze out a smile. Praise your wife first, and then say "it would be better if you could add more salt". The goal can also be achieved. It also takes care of the mood of the little cook. How good.
Where is it
This is a common problem of both men and women. In such a cold word, the enthusiasm just coming home will be frozen in a flash. I was in a good mood, but I was furious by this sentence. "Do you care where I go?" Don't blame my wife for returning you like this. Because what she heard in her husband's words is questioning except for doubt. Men never know gentleness, even if it is out of care. In fact, if you add a sentence "wife, I'm so worried about you" at the end, the effect may be much better.
Emotional experts suggest that the relationship between husband and wife needs skills. The more intimate people are, the more they can't say something. Otherwise, it will lead to a war, and finally hurt their feelings. It's not worth it!
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
